Hate is a strong word and it abounds in the heart of those with a diseased mind (never planned for, things happen). Those who have poor way of seeing things, those who have experienced hate themselves, those who don’t forgive and many more. I have heard stories of people who hate people for no just cause and they can do anything just to make them those people even hate themselves. Most people who have hate in them become psychopaths if that hate happens often and uncontrollably. It’s fine to have hate for someone for sometime but once it extends beyond a certain level, then it causes those who feel this way to do things that they shouldn’t.
Our world is full of so much hate as it stands and it is really alarming. Now, you don’t even have to step on someone’s toes first before they start developing hate for you. The moment you and someone they love don’t agree, that moment you also become their enemies too. Interestingly, they even hold on to that grudge more than the person who is the main character in the whole thing. Hate make people do things just to make those they hate don’t enjoy their lives. They always look for ways to deal with their enemies and it can be really bad for those they hate.
In a case when I have someone who hates me so much, taking legal actions would only come to my mind when I’m sure that I can’t handle it on my own. First, I will want to know why that person hate me that much. If it is something that we can resolve, I will make efforts to resolve things between us but if you refuse, I will just continue praying for you. Maybe, I might be tempted to want to hate you back if you keep trying to spoil my reputation and my relationship with others. But, I hope that I trust God to help you manage that hate you have for me.
I doubt that anyone will ever hate me to the point when I can’t resolve it or at most keep my distance to make peace reign. I know how much my good reputation means to me, so I’m very sure if I know of someone that is trying to tarnish that reputation, the best thing I would prefer to do is to avoid such a person than taking them to court because if I do that, the probability of them changing would be zero. And also, it will also give them the vibes that they have won because they have made me act foolishly like them by giving the impression that I hate them too.
People will always have emotions towards us but we really can’t completely control the kind of emotions they will feel towards us. Sometimes, these people do what they do because they don’t see anything wrong with it. They might even be having fun but they just refuse to see the part that they are hurting someone in the process and that’s to show you how faulty their minds are. I have had people who lied and bore false witness against me a couple of times and most times I try to prove that I’m innocent but that didn't stop them sometimes. With time, I learnt that, trying to explain ourselves all the time is not always the best, action is needed more.
People are definitely going to hate me and they will try to hurt me in different ways but then, the only legal actions I can take is reporting to a higher authority not necessarily going to the court but if that hates becomes life threatening, I will move to a place far away and also make sure to keep trying to change the person’s mind about me through my actions. As much as I can, I’d love to live at peace with everyone but if it gets really hard, one of the best ways is actually avoidance because as a friend once told me, everyone has a threshold. Knowing that someone hate me will overtime just make me want to hate them back to prove that I can actually do something to them.
I feel hate towards people sometimes but the moment I realize it, I struggle with myself to love them back because I know hating them won’t do any of us good. But for others, I can’t really say but I hope they do the same thing and it’s our loss if we can’t. I will try to make them feel love for me but if they can’t I will just avoid them and keep praying for them. I know it’s a bit absurd to pray for someone who wants your downfall but that’s what I’d rather do than take legal actions because it doesn’t guarantee things getting better.
That’s my response to the Hivelearners topic on ”THE HATE YOU GET”.
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I love the naysayers. I don't have time to look at those who hate me because I'm too busy with those who love me. Another thing is that I want to win everyone's hearts with just love.I really enjoyed reading your writings.
Exactly! There is really no time for hate and I won't stand myself giving attention to someone in a negative way.
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You are welcome my sister.
Keep loving and spread love this is the only way to live a happy life 🤗
I agree with you, Hassan. 🥰
Haters will keep hating..For me I don't think I have time to bore any hatred for anyone. If it gets to an extent I am at fault I will gladly apologize and move on with my life. No drama.
Simple and short! I like that. 🙂↔️
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Hate is a very strong word. It is a strong emotion. I don't think I have ever hated someone. When I was younger, I used to say, “I hate this teacher. I hate my principal,” but I guess I was just being a child. I was unwise.
The trust is that some people might just decide to start hating you for no solid reason. Humans sometimes do silly things. Especially on the internet. You can just be minding your business and someone will come out of nowhere to say awful things about you.
The best way to deal with hate is to totally ignore it, but if it gets threatening, it is best to report to authorities.
Thanks for sharing, love.
That’s right. The best way to handle such is to avoid them and make them think they are winning until they loss, hehe.
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It is better we should resolve our issues by discussion then we should move a step forward. People anger and hate is something that affects both parties according to me. We should avoid this better.
Well said, Aslam. I agree with you. 😊
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Everyone is angry and looking for who to pour that anger on. That's why myself, I am not calm especially in that street of Lagos. 😅😅
But I love it when people hate me, I give them more reasons to. I know you can't do ne anything than to keep hating and if they eventually do anything, I will be waiting.
Guyyyy! Lagos people are mostly naturally paranoid. 😂😂😂
Please run if necessary oo. 😂🤲
run keh.
You will give them back to back nih.
You can never be calm and stay in Lagos ooo
Okay, boss. 🤲
My problem is how sensitive people would sit and start generating hate for another who doesn't know anything. Is it not wickedness. The truth is that when you don't have God in your life, hatred will come and you will become a wicked person.
Thank you for sharing this piece.
You’re right. When we don’t have God in our lives, hate will abound.
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I think you should take it to the authorities! Any and all cases that please you morally and of course physically as well. Never give up fighting for the respect you deserve!
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I’ll rather focus on those that love me and teach those that have hate for me how to live by loving them first. It’s hard, but I’d rather learn to do that first and if it doesn’t work, I’d avoid them and if that doesn’t work, I will take actions legally.
Having people hate and do all sort of things is actually part of life, we just have to learn to accept it and only reach when it becomes too much .
Actually and that is why taking legal actions all the time is only going to burn us out.
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You are correct. Some people don't really need you to offend them before they hate you. They just go ahead and do it and they are just happy about it. But the opposite of hate is love. When we noticed that only love can solve such problem.
Thanks for sharing
I agree with you, mama. I believe love is the best response to hate and every other thing negative if we can. But if we can’t, it’s best to avoid such people.
pray for my enemies? no way... I won't curse them either, I will just distance myself from them as far as possible, that is my own way with haters..
Yes, dada.
That’s not bad too, hehe.
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