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but in reality human aren't not that different the way they're on the internet, there are people who pretend and fake a lot in real life. Most people pretend to be happy when they're not happy because they don't want their loved one's or family to find that out and some people fake in real life in other way. It is because we're more private in real life but real question is; how private we should be?
How private a person should be in real life
I'm a person who don't share anything with the family at all especially if there's something bad going on in my life I don't let them find out. When I was a kid and used to be sick, I never told my mom ever like not for once.
She told me many times not to keep these things to yourself and should speak to her but I never wanted to make someone worry about me and I used to think I'll be good on my own.
image by Chris Sansbury from Pixabay
This one time I was playing on my roof top alone and I did hit the ball that went out from the wall in other home.
Now to get that ball I tried to climb that roof and I fell from there got hurt badly. My head started bleeding and I somehow came back to home and just sat down on the stairs.
My mom wasn't at home that time and when she came back about 5 mins later.. she found me with blood and she panicked that time and called a taxi.. went with her to hospital and got treatment.
While returning home
She told me you should have told anyone else living on the next floor like neighbours and get help for yourself but I was just that kind of person from the beginning who never told anyone anything.
I got into trouble many times and didn't let anyone in the family know about it. I know it shouldn't be like that, not something good.
We always need someone who can hear us and give us honest advice.
I don't interfere in their privacy
We all have people we care about it could be siblings and other family members and they all have their own privacy and I honestly care too much but still never interfer in their privacy.
image by Whenever they're going through something they know I'll listen and that's why I don't need to interfer in their privacy.
They eventually tell those things and I give my honest opinion. I knew how private I used to be back then and the way mom cared about everything.
Now when I'm grown up man, it's my right to make sure everyone is safe and when they're in danger.. we all know what are supposed to do, if it comes to privacy like checking messages and stuff to find out truth, that make sense as your intention is to protect them.
Wrapping Up...
Now at this point of life I kind of over share things on the internet mostly in my blogs but never let anyone in real life knows all these things.
Anyways, we all have drawn our own line to privacy. I've been in life of people I care and know what they're getting themselves involved into and they do trust so. This is much more needed in relationships, trust over things where people are concern about their privacy.
In the end I'd like to know what's your thoughts about this topic in the comments.
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Your journey from being extremely private to finding a balance between privacy and sharing is relatable. It's true that sometimes we hide our struggles to protect our loved ones, but opening up can lead to valuable support and advice.
indeed, agree with you!..
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