Kids are the divine gift for parents, and a baby comes to a family with a lot of happiness. Parents always try their best to raise their children well. Parents are the first teachers of a child who teach a child what is wrong and what is right. Children make mistakes and do bad things many times, but it's the responsibility of parents to correct them.
I am not a married person, and I don't have any kids. But still, I have the imagination power, and I can imagine the situation about how to handle the situation when my kid makes mistakes or does bad things.
Like other parents, I also want my child to be polite and honest, but as a child, making mistakes is very natural, and sometimes doing something bad is not surprising either. There can be many reasons for it. As a parent, it will be my responsibility to correct him/her. Depending on how I handle the situation, it will mostly decide how my child will be in the future.
I don't love to beat my child because I believe that a friendly conversation is very effective compared to beating a child physically. In the case of silly mistakes, as a parent, I don't ignore it because everything starts with a little, and in the future, the little mistake can be turned into a huge mistake if not corrected in childhood. Again, beating a child for silly mistakes is rude, and it creates a negative impact in the child's mind. So for silly mistakes, I may love to make friendly conversations with my child and make him understand the mistake and correct it. At the same time, he must promise me now to repeat such behavior. I may try to make him/her understand it again and again when it comes to silly mistakes, but if s/he repeats it continuously, then I may give light physical punishment.
When it comes to major mistakes, as a parent, I need to handle the situation seriously. There is no way to ignore it. I need to be sure if the mistake was made intentionally or unintentionally. If the mistake is done intentionally, then I must make him understand the consequences of the mistake even if it's unintentional, and some technical punishment must be considered depending on the personality of the child. Those kinds of punishments are naturally light but a little bit embarrassing. In case it was an intentional mistake, then no doubt I will give physical punishment, and I think in that case I won't hold back because s/he deserves it even if s/he is my child. Physically I may beat him/her, but after punishment, I will console him/her again, and I must enlighten him/her why I have done this and why s/he is wrong. This kind of treatment after beating a child is very necessary in my opinion, but most of parents don't do that, and in my case, I won't make the mistake.
Whatever mistake my child makes, I must be ready to correct him/her, but I do not agree to leave him/her alone because if I do it, s/he may choose the wrong path, and I won't feel good about it. Whatever, as a parent, I hope not to face such a situation.
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Most parents make the mistake of punishing a child without making an impact of change IN THE LIFE OF that child. And that's why you will see the same child repeat such mistake over and over again. The place is discipline in a child can never be overlooked, however it's important to choose the one that wouldn't affect the child's emotions negatively
I can also use physical punishment whenever needed but obviously not always but depending on the gravity of offense my child committed
Personally I don't romance bad behavior.
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Hmm. I think physical punishment is not necessary as long as it can be solved with light punishment or with a friendly conversation and it's helps child not to get influenced negative thoughts arise in their mind.
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