It's a blessing to have both parents

in Hive Learners3 days ago

Parents are blessings for a child because parents are those people who take care of us, teach us manners, protect us from danger, and make us qualified enough to survive in this world. They don't hesitate to sacrifice their own desires for our betterment. Raising us is not an easy task.

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To raise us, they give their best effort, and from the financial perspective, it's also a big deal. For a middle-class family, raising a kid is a matter of concern from the financial perspective because ensuring food, education, and other facilities for a kid needs a good amount of money. Normally fathers take care of the financial matters of a family. Although because of inflation, it is getting more difficult for mothers to also try to help financially, but in most of families, fathers take care of the financial matters. And in the case of household work, teaching the child and taking care of them are mostly done by the mothers. What if any of the parents is absent in a child's life? Will it make an impact on a child's life?

Let's assume that the father is absent from a child's life. The child's mother needs to deal with financial issues as for raising the kid, she needs money. To earn money, she needs to invest her time, and at the same time, she needs to deal with all the household tasks, and that may make her exhausted, but she must do it for her child, and there is no doubt about it. The child misses the love of a father for sure; additionally, the child can't get enough time with the mother also, like other children usually get. When the child sees other fathers, the child understands the gap easily.

Again, assume the mother is absent from a child's life. It says that a mother's love can't be replaced by anything, and it's the reality. Even if a father brings the whole world to a child, it's not capable enough to replace the mother's love. Such a kind of child feels the missing of a mother, which is very natural, as a child is naturally close to their mother. Father can take care of financial things well, but it takes a lot of time, and he can stay home for a little time to spend with a child. Moreover, most fathers are not as good at taking care of their children like as mothers are. For a father, it's very challenging. I think raising a child as a single father is more difficult than raising a kid as a single mother. That's the reason I feel mothers have superpowers and their capabilities are more than fathers when dealing with special situations like that.

For single parents raising a child with the same gender, it's quite easy, and it becomes difficult when the gender is opposite. Partners still hesitate to share many gender-related things like (sex education) with the child when the gender is opposite. Just imagine, for a father, it's hard to explain the evening related to the menstruation cycle as the father doesn't have any practical knowledge. There are some things they find it hard to explain.

And at the end, the nature and character of a child mostly depend on the child's mindset. There are parental roles also, but mindset is the most important. Doesn't matter if it's a child of single parents or not; as long as the mindset of the child is positive, the nature of the child will be good. But one thing is sure that the impact of the absence of a parent will always remain in the mind of the child. So, having both a father and mother means they are lucky.



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 3 days ago  

it is indeed a blessing to have both parent cos it is not easy for a single parent to take care of the financial aspect and the upbringing of the child... Fathers are known to be the provider and mothers are known to take care of the home and children, so if one is missing in a child life, it wont be easy to fill the void

 2 days ago  

Hmm. There must be an impact if any one of them missing ina child's life. Some may argue that single parents are enough but it's not realistic.
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 3 days ago  

It doesn't get any easier when both parent partake in the upbringing of the child not to talk of having one parent doing it alone. A child needs both parents there is a reason why God made it that way.

 2 days ago  

Hmm. God planned everything very carefully for us. We need both parents and those child who don't have mother or mother can understand it better.
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 3 days ago  

Yes I agree with you, having both parents is indeed a blessing that anyone that have them should thank his or her creator for because it's not easy for a single parent to take care of their children's need

 2 days ago  

Indeed we need to be thankful to the creator for having parents in our lives. I think those children miss their parents a lot who don't have parents.

 3 days ago  

Single handedly, taking care of a child is no childs play. Even with both parents present, it's never easy. It's a long, long journey with too many concerns and needs. Parents are truly blessings.

 2 days ago  

In the current time taking care of children is a matter of concern as inflation is striking badly. Financial matters matters a lot.

 3 days ago  

They are truly blessings to us, as they made us see the world as a good place to be. Mingling with your peers would be as a result of the advice we get from our parents. Whichever one is absent from the child's life, there would be a need for the child to remain the best if well taken care of. The mother's love is important.

 2 days ago  

The mother's role in a child's life is more important in my opinion as at least she knows many things about how to take care of the child. I think we are lucky to have both parents in our life.
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For single parents raising a child with the same gender, it's quite easy, and it becomes difficult when the gender is opposite.

My brother is a single parent with two young girls and sometimes they find it challenging to converse about certain things as in your example (monthly period).

 2 days ago  

You see, I value mothers because they can easily adapt and take care of a child without a father than for a father to do that. Mothers have superpowers and don't think any father would be able to cope if they are doing it all alone. Above all, parenting is all about the character and nature instilled in a child.

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 2 days ago  

Exactly... There are simply some things that some parents cannot do individually. They would need to rely on the support of the partner, it's just what it is. You're right, having both parents is indeed a blessing!

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