When we were children we didn't understand everything and we didn't have enough knowledge to decide which was right and which was wrong. Naturally, we forget something when someone says something in a lovely voice. But we remember the thing for what we were afraid. In childhood times you didn't do any wrong thing because of fear and you grew up and now you are used to avoiding those things. Besides, now you can also understand that what is good for you and you feel proud of it now.
Exactly brother. Back then I thought I was being punished and that my dad was only being unfair to me and my siblings.. But now I know better and I appreciate everything he did.