I Would Choose Adoption Over Surrogacy !

in Hive Learners9 days ago (edited)

SurrogacyHey Everyone, I hope you are all fine and doing great. This post is my entry for the weekly featured content in the #Hivelearners community. Today's topic to write about is

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Surrogacy is a very sensitive topic, and before we proceed, I want to make it clear that whatever I am going to write is not intended to hurt anyone's feelings. This is just an informational post, and should be considered in that context.

If I say that becoming a parent is the greatest happiness in this world, it would not be wrong at all. It is a feeling and a bond so deep that after it, a person forgets about their own life and starts living for their children. This is the nature of things, and it should be that way. However, nature also brings challenges for us, one of which is the challenge of not having children. Many couples go through this difficult challenge. I won't delve into why they face this challenge or what the reasons behind it are.

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Our topic today isn't about this, but surrogacy is a scientifically developed method. In the past, there was no concept of this, but as we evolve, we encounter new problems, and solutions are also being found. If I talk about my religion, as far as my knowledge goes, our religion does not accept this. Our religion places immense importance on the relationship between parents and has given them distinct statuses. I am talking about Islam, which says that "paradise lies at the feet of the mother," and the father holds the key to that paradise. When a mother carries her child in her womb for nine months and endures all the hardships during that time, it is given a special recognition.

During this period, a unique bond develops between a mother and her child, something that no other person in the world can feel. Therefore, in my view, this method is not valid. This is my personal opinion, and you have the right to have a different one. In this situation, I would prefer adoption.

Adoption is a process in which you adopt a child from an orphanage, typically a child whose parents have either abandoned them or have passed away for some reason. What happens through adoption is that a child who comes to grow up in an orphanage is placed in a good environment. The adoptive parents, who are desperate for a child, take care of the child with love and affection, and they complete their family.

From what I have observed, children raised in orphanages often feel neglected due to the lack of attention, and many develop negative habits that wouldn't arise if they were properly cared for. So, my advice to all those couples who do not have children is to visit an orphanage, adopt a child, and play a positive role in society. Thank you.


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 9 days ago  

Same as in Indonesia, many artists and officials choose to adopt

 9 days ago  

Glad to know that.

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You bring religion into this and you know what hindu religion says... if couple is not able to get child, the lady has the right to you know conceive through someone else. Atleast in Mahabaratha, the ladies who could not have child through husband, had the physical association with another and conceived.

I do not subscribe to all this, I am clear but Hindu religion says this.

Now, I totally am for adoption. Why... because you don't need to give birth to become a parent, you can love any child as a mother or father what matters is you grow them up with love and good values.

However, todays rich film star fellows keep wanting to have a child, their child, have money so do surrogocy and have child, surrogacy is baned in India, so it done abroad... IV is ok.

It's a personal choice... but in todays age, we need to be broadminded and allow someone who wants to become a parent but cannot, maybe also because they don't want to marry for instance, can adopt.

Its for love(:

I can say one thing. As children, we never bothered much about money... we liked parents care, love, spending time, playing, speanding time with friends. As we grow up, money becomes very important, love fades(:... many marry for money...again its ok.

But parents generally love children not for money, this love is very pure, and special,

And even adopted children can get that love if they are lucky.

I hope I have not hurt sentiments too... I advocate couples to not have children and adopt, or have one child and adopt another...but family shuns me):

I really am for adoption since I was 16 years... I have two cats and both are adopted, stray cats, when many people prefer breeded cats, that's bred with breeder to keep as pet and all.

And I think my very first cat as my child and son only(: ... anyway