I related so much on the parenting habits your parents did to you, it's almost the same with my parents especially the first one, I remember when I was a child my father sometimes beat me with a stick or a hanger 😂 HAHA and it makes me cry so loud and in the end I will realize my wrong doing.
Im sure your future children will be lucky for having you as a mother...
Yes, it's good when parents beat and still makes the kid realizes what he or she has done bad so it won't repeat itself again.
Thanks for reading.