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Parenting is the most beautiful feeling of the world, being a parent of your children is the blessing of God and all the parents love their children and want to provide them each and everything in their life which they can do for them.
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Being a good parent is okay but being possessive about your children ain't ok!!!
I know mostly parents are possessive about their children and they can't allow them to do things without their permission. Possession is always worst thing, doesn't matter you are possessive about your partner or someone else but being possessive about someone isn't okay.
I remember a thing, maybe it's a month ago in which @dlmmqb shared a video in our @hivepakistan discord server, in which a mother is being possessive about his boy and the boy don't like her mom behavior because she's too much possessive. I know when someone is possessive about you then it means you are really mean to that person but mostly we feel bother from all the situation.
I'm a married woman but I'm not a mom neither i don't know what kind of mom I'll be in future but I think I'll give my children enough space to live their own life too as life has stages and when children need the parents is early childhood stage. Later we should give time and space to children to grow their own.
Here we used a term Burger girl or burger boy for those children whose parents are extra kind and they are behaving like they don't know about life or many things in life. Seriously i don't like such kind of children because they are so sensitive that they can't face the reality of life as you know our life are very practical and we need to face the harsh reality of life too then at that time those burger boy or burger girl can't face it and I think parents are responsible for this.
In my opinion we should raise our children's are so strong and not so week or innocent that when they need themselves then they can't do anything for themselves. Bringing up a strong child is more better than bringing up a weak children.
Let's raise a strong child!!!!
It should be start from the childhood era, when children play with other children's and we all know when children play together then they misbehave with each other and fight with each other too. Some children start to crying and rush towards their parents just to told them the situation so that parents will fight for them as children hide behind their parents, just like a shield 🛡️
I think at that time children learn to take a stand for himself as it's the early stage of life but those are also The children with which he was playing and it's all them their first stage of life, so give your child enough space and time to manage the situation on their own.
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I know that parents are worried about their children but after a certain time parents should allow their child to make their own decisions and judgement for a better future. Being possessive means mental torture although they they think that they are taking care of their child.