Sorry to hear about all the issues you are going through yourself and your family, it's quite a lot to take on.
Sometimes I don't want to get anything checked, because most likely they will find something, and I leave with a feeling of sadness, frustration and apathy.
There are two school of thoughts on this. Many say there is no point in doing checkups as it will just worry and stress you out, like you are now. Others say you should do regular check up to catch anything early.
Tricky situation....
That's right, but in my experience it is better to go before anything, if it is already present you have to go with more reason. Conclusion you have to study medicine 🤣😬.
It's a bad joke.
Thank you friend @livinguktaiwan , I have to tighten my pants and look for solutions for everything, health and my pocket. 🥹🥰