Avoiding noise and unwanted social interactions contributes to our serenity.
This is a publication based on the suggested topic proposed in the Hive Learners community through their discord, which on this occasion is "A Code I Love By".
Something that I value a lot today are the foundations or principles of life that a person can, having to demonstrate that a person has a way of living and that he is guided by a standard of values and beliefs, tells me that it is mainly a person who has ethics, who knows how to behave. And this for me is an indication that he is someone who has a critical sense and who has that ability or curiosity to always investigate, to start a good conversation or go further. For me this is a representation of the intelligence of a person who is not guided by what everyone else does, of someone who is capable and who is valuable to this society. Talking about the principles or codes that I love represents for me something very interesting, something that is very seductive. Important: one of my codes or principles of life is based on tranquility. I am a person who likes to live in peace and harmony, so noise is something that disturbs me and causes me too much anxiety, due to different episodes that I have experienced in life, such as the occasion when that there was an earthquake, I think about 5.5 or 6 degrees on the Richter scale. The noise that occurred at that moment, the crunch of the cement, of the concrete on the floor in the apartment where I live, disturbed me noticeably to the point that during the few seconds that this tremor lasted, which was about six or seven, I became distressed. a lot and the sound was marked in my psyche. Days later and even today, almost 7 or 8 years have passed since this event, every time I hear a similar noise, my psyche immediately connects mechanically and instinctively to that moment and I feel afraid, it gives me like tachycardia because I also remember the very similar sound that represents danger, danger to my life and anguish. At that moment I felt anguish when I saw how the columns of my home moved like gelatin puddings. And then, from there everything that means noise disturbs my peace of mind, my tranquility and goes against my principle of life. When a neighbor starts hammering or starts making noise, when there are dogs that at night the neighbors come home late and the dog or pet starts barking, well obviously at times when there is a lot of silence and everything is calm , when a dog from the same neighborhood or the surrounding area suddenly starts barking, disturbs the peace and tranquility that one has, and the principles of life, which are having a state of mental peace where you can create content, where you can write, where you can have your peace. This is one of my life principles, a code by which I live. I try as much as possible not to cause annoying noise to please the space and the environment. Another thing that is one of my life principles is to try as little human contact as possible, at least in person or physically. I do everything possible not to meet other people here in the building because it is very uncomfortable for me when they start asking me questions about how I am, how I live, because I don't like giving explanations to anyone about anything, I like to live in peace. and alone. I am not someone who really likes having social contact in person, because the social interactions that I choose or choose to have are done virtually, either by establishing a conversation via voice through some mechanism such as WhatsApp, a phone call or Discord. , or any of these shows that I participate in and interact with people on a weekly basis. Although you know that I have an activity that I do every Saturday, where I interact with dozens of hivians during that day, it is only on those occasions that I am willing to share and talk with people. But I try as much as possible not to meet people in the elevator where I live, because it is very uncomfortable for me to have to interact with people, because they start asking me how I am, or what I am doing this or that, and I I am someone who tries to keep my privacy or what I do within my personal zone. Among my principles is to only share this information with people who are very close to me and who I consider my friends, but not to share it with people who I know do not care about me. As I mentioned in the previous publication to this one, the case of overcoming, the episode of overcoming where I had to overcome a robbery, where I needed precisely that support from the neighbors, and none of them took care to give me that support, because I had lost my keys and had to sleep on the street. As a result of that, right?, I don't want to interact with any of these people who seem very false, very double-faced and very hypocritical, who didn't help me when I really needed them. And it is for that reason that I cannot conceive within my code that someone asks me how I am and I tell them that I am not well, or that they tell me that they are very happy that I am fine when I needed help from them or from any other neighbor. who has known me for a long time and they didn't give it to me. This is one of the reasons why I maintain this code and keep these people away, who I do not consider necessary to keep them within a code of respect, of my principles that allows me to let them interact with me, or allow them to get closer to what I what I do, the way I lead my life or what I think about things. I always try to keep a distance as much as possible, and that is part of my code of life. There are many other principles that I can, for example, tell you about. One of the things to finish this post now is that I don't like to be bothered when I'm working or creating content, and curiously it happens that when I'm working on a post, there are people who come to ask me questions, or who settle in to talk. with me sending me messages on WhatsApp or any other social network, Facebook messenger, etc., and they know that I am making a publication but they want to talk to me, and I precisely have my times measured. I have time for myself and I like to be a solitary person, but people seem to find it very attractive to talk to me and it is within my principles to only talk when I want. It's not that I'm bitter or anything, but I'm a very philosophical person who likes to live in his inner world, appreciate beauty from the tranquility and inner peace that I have managed to achieve over the years in my life. following these principles. And that is one of my principles, before starting to talk to someone I evaluate whether the possibility of what they are going to tell me deserves my attention enough for me to choose to abandon the pleasure of my solitude and my peace, to start talking to them, which do. But in 99% of cases it's the opposite, so they think I'm bitter, and that's funny to me, I care about my code of life, my peace, my world, and not theirs. This is the code I love. This is my black cat "manclar", this account is to honor his dead (it happened years ago). Thumbnail image maded using Bing AI and edited with Canva.com
"Ethics is knowing the difference between what you have the right to do and what is right to do."
<< Potter Stewart >>
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Estoy totalmente de acuerdo contigo en lo de ser selectivo con las personas, no todas tienen buenas intenciones y cuando uno necesita algo, no aparecen... pero si quieren que uno esté siempre 😅. Espero que te sientas mejor, saludos @manclar 🙌.
It is the law of life, choosing who you treat, who you communicate with and what you let them see about your life. For example, right now I just did the cross to an idiot, who I really dislike...law of life.
I feel pretty bad...thank you for stopping by my good Vanessa 💕
!PIZZA
Interesante exposición, básicamente entiendo que te gusta la tranqulidad y evitas a la gente con doble cara. Un abrazo @manclar.
Thanks @enraizar, you already know that I feel bad and I'm not really looking forward to anything these days, so I keep silent.
These days it's not about double-sidedness, but that I don't have the strength for anything and I need to rest.
A hug.
Rest my friend.
A big hug.
Seems like we have something in common.
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thanks, welcome to the club!
!pizza
feels really good.
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