Showing kindness is very important and necessary in an individual's Life, as we all show kindness to others and we receive kind gesture from others as well. But unfortunately these days the way and directions of which showing of kindness to people return to you, it making it look as if it is not right to show Kindness to others. However the best way to go about extending kindness to other person is not expecting anything in return when you show kindness to them that way you will not be disappointed by the way which things may turn around. In Life we have been disappointed most by the people who will know and place high and with high hope on them, but at the end we are shocked by their actions towards us. I have experienced alot of kindness from people, and I have also Experience the opposite from people especially close one's. I will start by the Inhumanity from a close one before I conclusion the the stranger kindness.
Sometimes ago, when I was in my 100 level in nursing institution, the rate of corruptions became much in my state, to the extent that some person's paper the preliminary Training Section Examination even before sitting for the Examination heheh, you are surprised right?? That was how bad it was then, so I read my books just as I can, and prepare for the Examination knowing fully well that alot of people have paid their way in already. At the end of the program we sat for the Examination and it was going well, the whole exams was written in just one week and after one week from the last day of the Exam, the school management started relaxing results and it was very obvious when the first 15 Students results was released, these are people who we don't even see in class, moreover we are 278 and only the best 75 Students are to be taken and the rest 203 are going Home.
I meet my Family Related Member, how is among the head of institution management and was in charge in the results releasing, seems the passing of the Examination not on merit again, I asked her to help me out that I was spent 6 months in school, it won't be nice dropping along the way, she allowed me to finish, then she asked me to pay her 350k that was in 2020. At first I was shocked hearing that from a family member and I tried asking her that I don't have up to that amount how much can I give to her so that she can help me out she stick to that 350k and that's the last and that point in time I don't have the money that was how I lost that admission and was so disappointed that this was coming from a family related member, who I placed high. However, all these are in the past now. So Talking about the kindness from a Stranger it is many but I will pick few, check it out below.
When I went to Nasarawa State, for state nurses are midwife national convention. This travel was not really planned, but we have to because of mandate we wanted to deliver (bringing back the office of National President to my State). So we went to this state and the Cold there is two times greater than what I feel in my state do you raining season, so I was not with enough funds to start buying a new sweater at that moment. So when I was complaining the room they give us which was a classroom at that and the cold, a lady walk up to me, and ask if she can help I didn't take it serious at first but answered no problem. She got me a new sweater and pay for a lodge throughout the one with program and never visited for once. I was very surprised to see that such people still exist. Talking about the people in Nasarawa State that was my first time going to Northern State, so we have heard a lot of things about them but reaching there the friends I made was totally different from the ones I have in East I'm not sorry to see this. Because they were accommodating and a nice treat to stranger.
In conclusion, showing kindness is needful because you may not know when and where you will be repay, and do expect anything in return when you show kindness to others. Because much expectations can lead to disappointment when they are not reached.
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Be kind and don't expect anything in return because when the reward is shown you won't ever believe nor imagine.
I gave somebody #1000, my last cash without asking but I felt he needed help and I did on a Sunday morning before the afternoon someone requested my account no and gave me #5,000 just for that little act of kindness
Don't expect the reward but it will happen naturally
Wow that's an amazing one. Indeed kindness pays
Heyy mayor my friend you are very right that never ever keep any expectations from any human they might disappoint you which can also hurt your feelings.
Exactly 💯 you understand it..
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The surprise of being helped is amazing! and I can feel your moment when you got the sweater. It should be very comforting!
Yes ooo. It was like an angel sent from heaven.