Yet another fun topic to write about but had to think the other way for a moment.
Normally, I think very positively. I know what I like, what I want and enjoy doing.
But now the opposite is being asked.
Currently I'm at home, not capable of working due to a temporary illness, and I noticed that I miss the people around me.
So to have no contact with people during work hours would be a no go for me.
The need to be able to communicate, hear other people's stories and share my own thoughts are great.
I am a real people person and would be miserable with no one around me.
I wouldn't want to miss my children and colleagues at school for anything.
A job which would require too much physical labour is also not wanted.
Working as a builder for instance.
The work in itself doesn't bother me.
It's just that I worry about the potential harm that continuous heavy lifting and hauling could do to my body in the long run.
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That's what bothers me most about those kinds of jobs.
Many people around me who have always done heavy physical work run out of steam later in life.
Their bodies then have so many physical complaints that they cannot really enjoy retirement.
When the time comes and I retire I want to fully enjoy it.
And not be stuck with all kinds of physical complaints.
I still want to do so many things so I try to take care of my body as best I can now and that includes avoiding heavy physical work.
When I was a teenager, I worked in the fields as a holiday job. (Cutting asparagus, picking berries, planting crops, weeding, etc.)
How much I suffered then.
In the pouring rain, burning sun and cold, I stood there working.
The pay wasn't great either and when you got home you were exhausted. The summer job after that in the catering industry was quite an improvement thankfully.
Although my current job is seen as mentally demanding by some, I don't experience it that way.
For instance, a job as a psychiatrist.
Just hearing about other people's problems.
Constantly listening to misery does something to your own sense of happiness and mental health.
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No thank you, my job should bring me joy, happiness and satisfaction.
But to get back to the point and questions.
What's that one job that I'll never do?
That would still end up being a lonely profession.
For example, a lighthouse keeper on a deserted island.
No one to talk to, no going to a cosy restaurant, or watching a movie at the cinema.
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No, not even if I got a top salary.
If I was always stuck on that island alone, no money could compete with that.
And having all that money is pointless if you can't spend it on something fun.
Is there room for a bubble bath in a lighthouse?
And driving your brand-new Porsche around a deserted island doesn't sound very cheerful either.
All this is pointless if you can't share it with someone.
By the way, Robert Waldinger, professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School has researched that the unhappiest jobs are also among the loneliest. Source
So I'll stick with my current job with my regular salary.
A career switch to super rich, lonely lighthouse keeper is not for me.
Wishing you all the best in life and much health.
Paula (@meraki7578)💚
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A very interesting read. I never considered lighthouse keeping as a lonely job though and you have a point there about not being able to enjoy your money on the job.
I like fun 😋
Thanks for sharing friend.
A lonely job can become tiring and cause strain to one's mental health no doubt from your explanation above, who would I want to stay alone at a job all year long, it's definitely not for me either.
It is indeed reality we want to live in world /atmosphere surrounded by people
Lonelin Is good too but only for a short span of time
After getting prolonged it literally Sucks
It is terribly hard job to be alone at island finding noone near you
What is really the essence of making money when we can't enjoy it, honestly I wouldn't want to work as a light house keeper as well.
Working isn't about just making money, our happiness is tied to the things we do and it's important we do things that wouldn't cause harm to our mental health.
I think just your sentence would be a lot nicer, just a suggestion. Glad to have around.
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Wow what a text! I feel you what you are going through now, things are going to change soon and you will be back to work.
I think I wouldn't fit much in physical work either, I already suffer from back problems due to bad posture! If I was doing some physical work I would need a doctor right away! About the berries and other picking also is problematic. Every summer we go strawberry picking in a U-Pick farm with the family...the sun on top of us and the need to bend our knees all the time get us tired!
About the lighthouse keeper job, is still a thing? That remembers a movie of Robert Pattinson and William Defoe movie based on an Edgar Allan Poe story, in which the subject is lonely as a lighthouse keeper.
Thanks a lot, it was awesome to read your text again =)
Thank you for your response and kind words.
And yes lighthouse keepers still exist although it is a dying profession thanks to all the technology that shipping has.
I haven't seen that film with Robert Pattinson yet but will definitely look it up.
Thanks for the tip. That way I have something else to pass the time with.
Have a great day.