I have learnt a lot of lessons this year and some taught me to be myself every time, every day while some taught me to speak out and ignore when it’s needed. Though life hasn’t been rosy every time I have been good all the same.
In the Year 2022,I learn new things, get hurt,get betrayed, and meet amazing people. So, it was a mixture of sad moments and happy moments.
One of the lessons I learnt this year is never to give up/if you want something, go for it and never relent regardless.
When I was onboarded on hive by @princessbusayo I was more than happy and seeing how she always talks about hive and how this blockchain has supported her needs and wants makes me glad and I was moved by that. When she explained to me that you earn by the number of votes you get my mindset was that I will surely be getting a lot of votes as far as I wrote well and put in the effort in my work.
But too bad that’s not the case and everything is all about luck.
I get to learn how life works and things won’t be as smooth as you expected but you won’t just let the outcome of that weighs you down and you just have to keep doing your best.
I was onboarded along with one person on hive but due to the fact she wasn’t getting rewards for her content like others on hive, she give up and stop posting. I understand her point and how she feels, but if you want something and want to soar high on it you will keep moving and put your best regardless. So, giving up should never be an option and with that, I became a strong person, not by body😂 but by heart. So, the year 2022 taught me to be strong and that I shouldn’t beat myself up over things I can’t control.
Another lesson I learnt this year is to keep company with people that will make a positive impact in my life
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This year I have learnt to be deliberate in making friends and I am done having friends that don’t add any benefit to my life.
How I came about being deliberate in making friends is I met a lady this year and whenever I see her she is always into some things that will add value to her and if speaking with her friends on phone they are always talking about how they will make money and not some silly talks. So, the friends you keep will determine how far you will get in life, so I urge everyone to make good friends like the proverb that says “bad friends corrupt good manners“. The best thing you can do for yourself is to make good friends.
Out of all the lesson, I learnt this year the greatest one I learnt is no one succeed solely due to his or her effort. Sometimes, you need to succeed by mingling with people so for this to happen you have to get out of your comfort zone and go out there to connect with valuable people.
How did I come up with this?
One day I was scrolling on hive and a guy planned on delegating HP to one hiver below 100Hp then a lady nominate a guy who she met on the blockchain. This won’t have happened if the guy has not connected with the lady before that so it’s great to connect with people.
What’s your greatest lesson this year? You can share it in the comment section 😌
Thanks for reading to the end.
Lol, this is a great lesson, it's good to be consistent and determined. I know your hard work will pay you soon, just keep on pushing.
I never knew you were onboarded by @princessbusayo , I met her a few days that I was invited here and she has been so nice to me that I can't forget her in my life.
About the conclusion aspect, I was the one that @merit.ahama suggested the other day Burlaj was celebrating his reputation on the blockchain. Merit has been a very nice person that I ran to whenever I needed any answers to some questions and she would reply to all my questions. I kept the bond and always check on her.
I learned that keeping good friends will make you successful, have met some friends here that whenever I ask them something, they won't even reply, and ignore them. But I keep on looking for the right ones. And have met some nice ones here as well.
Just keep a good company, and leave the circle of bad friends,this is a great lesson for me.
Thank you for this amazing content,you are wonderful.
Hehe you're doing well
See the long comment that you dropped for somebody's daughter 🥲
Well, I trust she would be so happy to see it haha.
Keep engaging Actor, success all the way!
Hahaha, it was just an inspiration though.
Thank you for stopping by ,you are a rare gem!!
That's a good inspiration hehe
You're welcome! 🙂
Lol
I am more than happy😂😂😂
Thank you😁
Wow sure princess is a sweet lady and everyone that get to knows her tend to like her and yes I know it’s you that got the Hp from burl I just don’t want to say the details of every time and about you saying you walk up to some people and they don’t help that’s how life is and that’s why it’s good to study people and make friends with them so you can know the kind of person they are. But at last you found a good person like merit and she has been helping you with some questions.
That’s great to see you are progressing.
Thanks for dropping this beautiful comment and I will say I am very happy and grateful .
Thank you for the kind words, we move regardless of any discouragement. At least some are there for us.
Wish you all the best dear.
Amazing. When you know what you want, there is nothing stopping you unless you aren't ready to go for it. It's important to be intentional in all things.
I am glad you took my words and stayed on hive despite what you have been going through here. The truth, everyone who are earning huge today started from somewhere and they never relented or gave up.
I believe next year will be the best for you on Hive. Just keep doing the right thing and you will come to appreciate it at the end of the year. May God spare our lives till then.
Having good friends who add value is important in our journey of life and growth. Come next year, let's be intentional with the kinds of friends we should be surrounded with.
This doesn't mean we should start avoiding them at all cost, it takes wisdom to find the best thing for yourself. Good luck to you ♥️♥️
Yes taking in valuable advice is one of the great things I have learnt to adhere to over the years and it has been helping me so far and yes I sure know things will start coming to places for me on hive soon.
Thanks for your words of encouragement every time and I do appreciate all the help you have render.
Thank you.
Never to give up if you want something, keep pushing and dont stop pushing. Nice one dear
Thanks for your comment.
it's good to go for what you want, just make sure you are sure of getting it the right way because some things are not worth fighting for. But then friends with value are worth fighting for. nice one
Thanks you for reading and dropping this beautiful comment.
I agree with you and I believe that giving up is not an option, we must fight for our goals until we achieve our objectives, I hope that in this 2023 all your plans are fulfilled, may it be a prosperous year, full of health and prosperity.
Awwww thanks for the prayers and I hope I do achieve all my dreams in year 2023.
Thank you😊😌
very well said, Hive is something totally different to which people are not use to, I am talking about people who are more into social media platforms. It may take time to understand the mechanism, the key is engagement and time, patience. Not thinking about quick money, you may think and take it positively to learn something out of it. It's a big debate.
Thank you for sharing your experiences.
Awwww I am glad you read through and drop this beautiful comment.
Thank you.
Welcome :) keep sharing your experiences
Life is really hard but you are striving to overcome these difficulties, I congratulate you.
Thank you and I do appreciate your comment.
Yeah, life is not always rosy, but keeping at what you do is key.
Thanks for your comment.
You've learnt good things, it's good to connect with people that will add value to one's life and not just anyhow friends that would only engage one in discussions that are not beneficial to one's growth.
No one is independent, we need each other to grow, most times what you need is with someone and vice versa. So being able to make good friends or relationship with people will make one grow fast. Moreso, that's another reason why I love this platform, it connects people together from different parts of the world.
Yes life work smooth and soft when we connect with people that are better in things that we are doing then we too be better in that.
Thanks for your beautiful comment.
is it me you are calling a guy, what happen to my love🙄
you are a strong lady mercy, actually i respect people who joined hive and didn't quit due to low vote or earnings on their blog....
you are one of those who are patient and good things happen to those who are patient☺️
Giving up is never an option, see you at the top dear❣️
your post is definitely the last one i would be reading tonight before i retire 😁
Heeeeiiii my guy my guy😅😅😅oyaaaa vex and slap me😀😅
Thanks for the words of encouragement dear and yes I appreciate your beautiful comment.
bring your cheeks, let me see how soft it is😁
It’s great to just take some time and recollect and realise all that we were blessed with for the year and everything we have newly learned. Thanks for sharing it with us here. It certainly inspired me to take some time and look back at my year. Cheers!
Thanks for the beautiful comment.
It's a great story with inspiration. 2023 will actually be greater
Thank you,amen.
Great to hear your story. Very inspirational. Hope you have a great 2023!
Thank you,same wishes to you too