I'm one of those humans who gets more compliments than insults or abuse, I don't think I've ever had any of those with serious faces and tones... They are mostly said jokingly so I never count them as insults.
But compliments? I get them a lot and those compliments about me and who I am is what matters most to me... They are what I call "Self-love Compliments".
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Compliments are mostly said when one has done something worth praising, sometimes it doesn't require much effort to get a compliment because we're all unique and the usual way you tend to do things may be an amazing way to another so you easily get a compliment from them. But then, self love compliments are different from my point of view.
Getting compliments for being who you are and I think that is the greatest!
Those compliments said about how I look, what I do and how I do the things I do and how I choose to think about some things... All those matters most to me, they are great compliments but there's one special one I'll call the greatest compliment I've had and still having up till date.
Before I share my favourite compliment, I'll share a few others that have helped boost my self love and self acceptance.
You look like a model, Merit
I get this a lot when I decide to take pictures... Or did they mean, I'm photogenic but over exaggerated it to me looking like a model? Lol. Whatever, looking at myself everyday I could tell I'm not putting my body to full use because I really do look a model.
I remember my friend trying to convince me to get a form and start modelling, I'm not sure I'm cut out for that so I'll just stick with the compliments and stay grateful for my body's beauty.
You have a lovely and long hair, Merit
If compliments could make my hair grow by a tiny length, my hair would have been one of the world's longest hair lol... I'm just kidding but to be honest, I've gotten lots of compliments on how good my hair looks. I'll give this to my mum for letting me take this one from her (it's not like I didn't take almost everything from her though haha).
I get this compliment a lot that I tend not to feel excited about it anymore but I never fail to feel grateful that I'm one of those who have a good hair length even though I'm still looking for ways to grow it more so it could look better.
You have a soft and calm voice, Merit
On call, singing, and even shouting angrily... I get this compliment 😂 the last time I tried to say some words with more seriousness and add some depth to it, it came out even more calming. Another reason I've been finding it hard to put in more power when I sing.
There was a friend I had back then who would say he gets sleepy and relaxed when he listens to my voice. I know this may sound like an insult or embarrassing but I find it beautiful to be complimented on having such a voice so I'm proud of my voice, it has helped some people in the most little way.
And to my most favourite & greatest compliment which I've decided to share as the last one is the compliments I get for my smile.
Your smile is contagious, Mhizsmiler
I got the nickname, Mhizsmiler from this compliment when a friend shared her thought that she hardly see me get annoyed but instead I make her smile and always remember my smile when she hears a joke. It's funny how I get almost the same compliment about my smile but I always feel excited and happy to hear it again.
I once made a status update on my WhatsApp with a picture of me not smiling, guess what I got as a reaction to the picture.
I can picture your smile on the face and it's beautiful 😂
I was like "What?" how do one picture smile on another's face? For the times I try to not smile, I do get compliments like that so I gave up trying not to smile and I just stick to being me... Mhizsmiler.
There are other compliments like I said in my title but these compliments about me and who I am has helped over time to build my self love and confidence which I'm most grateful for.
What compliments do you get most often? Let's get your response in the comment section.
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Wow, beautiful Merit with her contagious smiles 😍❤️
Indeed these compliments worth increasing your self love...your long hair, I feel like inheriting it if possible 😂😂, your calm voice is amazing 😍, those times I have heard of sing my dear, I didn't want the music 🎵🎶 to end any time soon, or was it the first time I heard your voice over the phone, oh my goodness 🤭🤭....I respected you the more...if kenechukwu97 didn't tell me you are a Nigerian, I would have thought you are from Canada or so 😂😂🤣
By the way, your cover image looking so stunning 😍
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Lol... I don't sound like a Nigerian? I knew it!
Na mistake I take enter this country 😭🤣
Thanks so much for the more compliments you're pouring on me, I'm blushing 😁
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hahaha 🤣 Merriitttt....my tommy oo 😂
Bursting out of laughter here..
What a comedian you are 🤣🤣
Yes, na mistake you take come naija but don't cry okay? You will soon Japa 😂
Lol... Let that japa time come fast abeg
You're really beautiful, well mine is a sweet voice, beautiful and long hair, beautiful dentition with diastema and a good heart. This is a great post.
And from those compliments, you're a great person dear 🥰
I love you already, good hearts are rare to find ❤️
I love you too sis, keep the good work up.
Sure, I will
You are beautiful and that body is to die for. I get complimented for my smile too. When I smile, people smile too. It’s contagious like that. “You are pretty” is something I get since when I was a child.
Well done.
Awww you're sure going to have a contagious smile if you've been pretty since you were a child 😁
Thanks for stopping by dear
Indeed... Your smile is contagious. And I can see why you keep on getting the compliments. You are doing well.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
Haha he's here 😁
Thanks for your own compliment 🥰 I appreciate
Simply amazing would have been the right words for you to use seeing how endowed you are 😸
Awww thanks so much 😊
Superb Mhizsmiler, You'll probably look nice while you're upset too.
You have a good heart, which is why you always receive compliments; living this way is a fantastic idea.
You are constantly joyful and worry-free.
I wish you a happier life and more success in everything you do.
You are amazing
Ahhh all these compliments for me? 🙈 Awwww thanks so much Actor 😊
And Amen to your wishes ❤️
You are welcome,continue to spread love and be happy always
When someone is beautiful like you are there is no how you won't get compliment always
You smile is unique and am sure that person that compliment you sees the uniqueness of you smile 😊
Awww thanks dear, your compliment is sweet and exciting for me too 🥰
You are always welcome 🤗
You are pretty Merit 😁. I also love your voice hehe.. Stay beautiful inside and out !LADY
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Awww thanks Janey 🥰
Wow you are so beautiful 😍 I am glad you get a lot of compliments; you deserve them! Rare to find a lady who has it all: brains, grace, beauty, and kindness. I think you got two helpings of positive attributes when you were made🤗 !PIZZA
Haha Grindan, you're so sweet with words... Thanks a lot, I appreciate 🥰
You definitely know how to smile and I am sure most of your friends must have been used to seeing you smiling that's why you get such compliments.
I am attracted to your hair... It is so long and beautiful as well...
See me already complimenting you already!...
By the way, I selected this post for curation instead of the last one you sent to me
Haha your compliment is very much appreciated, I get that a lot 🤣
See me showing off now haha
Yeah, I figured... Thanks a lot
You are welcome!
You look confident when you love yourself. Thank for sharing 😉
Sure, that's one of the essence of self love.
Thanks for stopping by
You are beautiful Mhizsmiler, with your model looking figure and OMG😯 you've got a beautiful long shiny hair,
This babe came to oppress us today, haha😂😂, all I'm trying to say is, you are fine joor.
🙈🙈🙈
And this babe came to make me blush without pause 😂
Thanks so much dear, I'm seeing stars
Haha, 😀😀, you are welcome dear
I am sure you will be blushing when getting all this compliment and them saying you look a model they aren’t lying like see how hot you looks like in the first picture on gown. Meeeeh you are looking sweet and fresh.
Awww she has added her own compliments o 😂
Thanks dear, I appreciate and yes, I'm blushing again
The first step to good health is self love.
Soooo right haha
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Mehn!! You look like a model truly and you are photogenic too. Such a beautiful damsel 😎😎😎
Your smile is contagious too and I like it. Your hair? It's long just like mine too and I am always beaming with smiles when people compliment that I have a long hair.
Fine girl, go and take form and be a model oo 🙄🙄
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Lol... This girl and her sweet mouth but always find a way to look for my trouble 😂
Thank you, help me get the form and I'll do the modelling ehn 😁
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Just send me form money, I will send the form straightaway 🤤
Lol... Get the form for me as a gift nau 🙄
Lol... So cool
Thanks Tengo 🥰
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