I will raise my children to accept their mistakes

in Hive Learners • 17 hours ago

Children are always innocent and cute. And they make mistakes and they look more cute. Hey everyone 👋. This is me Moaz and here I am write about the parents and children. Both children and parents support each other.


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Now I want to write here according to my topic that if my children do any mistake in future then how I will handle them, If there is a mistake. Everyone makes it, be it a child or an adult. But I will raise my child in such a way that he will learn from his mistakes. I will pretend her mistake in such a way that he will understand whether to repeat the mistake again or not. Many people try to rid their children of the mistakes of scolding. But in this way, the child makes a mistake. Because he rebels against his parents.

  • Now it is the turn of how I will train my child. For example, if my child does something wrong that is intolerable, I should first explain it lovingly. And I will teach him to admit his mistake. Many parents cover up their children's mistakes so that their children remain ahead of the times. But I will teach my child to accept his mistake. I will explain to him that by admitting a mistake, a person never becomes smaller, but understands more. It will admire him to accept his faults and being a good person.*

I remembered when I was young, my mother didn't punish badly on my mistakes. She maximum slap me when I make a bad mistake. But never treat my like that I am a bad guy. She realized that mistakes are happening but the main thing is to learn grom your mistake. Accept your mistake and then try to cover it.
And the same lesson I will teach to my children. My opinion is very different about children. Because they are a gift from God. And I will never treat them worst ever.

I will raise them in the sense that they will never repeat the same mistake. And they will never hurt anyone.
I will try to recognize the emotions of my child and offer him empathy. And told him that I am always here to support him. Infact of blaming him as careless and irresponsible, I will focus on the specific behavior that led to mistakes. This will help him that what he did wrong and how can he improve it. I will help to find the right way to resolve his issues and mistakes.
Mistakes only happen when you wants something. Or you have to get something for your own. So I will teach him the right way by which he can get his desire without and bad act.

As a Dad, I will play a positive role for him. Because parents are role models for their children. So I will never do anything which leads them for bad works.

So it was my lovely way to handle the mistakes of my children. And I have read many posts of the guys, who are describing their feelings about this topic. And all of them are doing great. And hence I made my attempt.

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Good points in there.

Children learn by modelling.

 13 hours ago  

Thanks for your love.

I admire you emphasis towards being a positive parent. Sometimes parents become too harsh. My own parents haven't been the kindest at all times. But I believe the parents can be nicer, as long as the children are not astray by bad influence.

 13 hours ago  

Yes you are right. Parents should b kinder. But we can't blame them for their hardness because they need our future good. Thanks for you love and comment 💓😊

 15 hours ago  

This method will work too, when a child doesn't know how to admit his or her mistakes, such a child will not know how to accept correction. The first thing is to make them realize their mistakes, then administer correction pills, LOL. With this, they won't do such a thing again and even if they repeat it, they know they consequences already.

 12 hours ago  

Yes and I am very happy that you got my point. And stand with this point. Thanks for your lovely time.

 14 hours ago  

It is very important to let children learn how to accept and take responsibility for their mistakes on time. It makes them realize that it is not a taboo to make mistakes but not accepting it and learning from it makes it bad.

 14 hours ago  

Yeah you are right. And I will follow it inshallah

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