When we see people with relationship problems, sometimes we judge them and start saying, Why don't they break up?" One of the ways to live a miserable life forever is to be inside toxic relationships.
Meanwhile, it is funny how some of us think we can't be in toxic relationships and still end up being there. I would say I have even seen worse. People will go to extremes in toxic relationships until one of them dies or even almost loses his or her life.
This reminds me of when I was in the university; there was this someone I knew then who happened to like one of my friends; she is a lady. The lady told me about the approach of the guy, and I told her to go ahead, not knowing that the guy is nothing but a beast.
The guy became friends with me because he was going to date my other friend. Well, I have no issues with that; they fell in love and all of a sudden. Fighting today, fighting tomorrow, I later realized that the guy was just using my friend; I couldn't tell her but fought for her by telling her that she should try and leave the relationship. I never knew the guy had gone to extremes to even hack her WhatsApp, so now I have become the bad person.
Every day this girl cries like a baby; it is from one problem to another. I told her to leave the relationship because I was too angry, and this lady told the guy about it. I was pained, then I realized that you can't advise someone who is in love.
Toxic relationships are more of psychological disorders. You lose everything you have; even your senses stop working. I mean, it's funny how people will be in a relationship that can end their life and still defend it to their last breath.
The day I was so scared of toxic relationships was when my friend fell in love so deeply with a lady; in fact, this happened recently. Both of them are someone I know very well. When the relationship started, we were all good together, until the lady started staying with him. She chased everyone away; all the guy friends could no longer come around. She wasn't able to chase me because I'm so important to them.
This lady talks to my guy any way he wants it, and the guy will not talk. Funny enough, the mother of this guy told him to leave the girl alone, but it's all in vain.
It was then I realized that this lady would go to another man's house, and my friend would not be able to do anything about it. I was shocked; I could not even advise him to leave her alone because if you do, he won't listen. Someone that doesn't even listen to his mom and uncle.
In short, this lady packed out of the house after tormenting this guy's life, and guess what happened? The guy wants him back. He was so sick, so lean that it's looking like he's going to die. He was psychologically disturbed.
Then I truly believe that toxic relationships are nothing but a psychological disorder. On a normal day, this guy is a strong person, but look at him now. Till this moment, he still loves the lady so much.
People happen to stay in toxic relationships because they are psychologically disturbed; who on earth will not want to have peace if not that the person is something else? Love is indeed crazy. And the fact is that, with no remedy to it, the only remedy I know of is to pray for this person and not move away from them.
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I have said this countless times and people don't want to agree. If you see anyone who is ready to be buried in a toxic relationship, then the person has a mental issue. The fact is that, girls can be toxic and also guy. I know of a girl that harm herself anytime she has issue with her boyfriend.
Things are happening. I love the fact that you help your friend but there are some people who have no one to run to.
It’s a pity majority in my country do not believe that psychological disorder is not only an issue for “mad people”. Many will receive help if help could visit a professional counselor.
People who do not have enough self-esteem seek that dependency in toxic relationships, and obviously they need help because otherwise they will continue stuck in that place that does not allow them to progress, they feel trapped, stagnant. It is important to seek help to get out of it and expose the problem.
Advising someone in love is like pouring a bucket of water in the ocean, there’s no change.😂
Once love sets in, all sort of reasoning disappears, the best you can do is give advice.
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