Despite how strong I think I am, I've been hurt many times because of rejection. But when I put my grief to a pause for a while and weigh the odds, I begin to see the golden opportunity ahead of me.. this is how I quickly put my mind off from any situation that has gotten me rejected.. Being rejected hurts a lot, quite true but I believe when we try harder or try something else, we smile at last.
Just like I said earlier, I've been hurt a thousand times but the one rejection that I'll never forget happened last year..
After I passed out from my National Youth Service program in the year 2020.. It seemed like I had no concrete plans for my self, was still having that feeling that I had enough money saved up from my monthly allowance and so never bothered to apply for jobs immediately. I continued like this for months until my money was almost finished..It was then it dawned on me that I needed to get a job.
I applied for several positions in the private organization where I served.. I was never invited for any interview not to talk of getting the job.. Some persons I met even told me that it won't be possible for me to get employed because I had just my bachelor's degree.. At this point I got frustrated but I kept applying regardless of all the discouraging comments I got.. Until sometime last year, I was finally called for an interview for the position of a health record assistant at the private hospital of the school.. I was very grateful to God that at least I was invited for an interview that also involved a good sum of money as salary at least for a start.
I contacted a few persons that I know to tell them the good news and some hints were given to me on the likely questions that would be asked via the interview.. I prepared for this interview like my whole life depended on it and after the preparations, the day of the interview finally came. It was successful I made 85/100!😄
You might be wondering how I knew my score?
On the day of the interview, I met my colleague who happened to be an ex-corper during our youth service years. She was one of the interviewers and was fully representing her dad who happened to be the chief medical director of the private hospital.. So after a week of the interview, I reached out to her and asked her about my performance and she highly commended me for being so smart and confident with all the questions that I was being asked on the day of the interview.. She told me my score.. Yea! that was how I knew my score She also gave me the assurance that I would get the job because of how well I performed and I was patiently waiting for the day I'll get an email message on my new job.. But it turned out that I was rejected😔
I made two friends on the day of the interview.. Guess what? They got the job🙂
And this drew my mind back to what they told me that very day. They said that the organization is tribalistic.. "No matter how well a person does in the interview, as long the person is not from their land, the person can never get the job except is by God's grace or through the help of someone influential" These were their words to me and it made sense after all. My friends got the job probably because they did well in the interview and most probably because they are children of the soil.. And as for me I got rejected from being employed in that hospital because I am not a son of the soil and I didn't also have anyone influential to help me out ..😔
I was so hurt during this period.. I would have gotten the job but for some tribalism parole I got rejected.. And as for my colleague that I met at the interview, she bluntly told me that the issue was beyond her powers.. I was very helpless!
I was invited for another interview sometime mid year and same thing happened.. I was very hurt again and after a while, I had to pause my grief to meditate on the issue Working for someone might not be my calling!.. I thought
I can't continue like this.. I have to look elsewhere and this has to be something I'd do comfortably on my own and at my own pace.. Learning a digital skill came to mind.
So I started and I'm still a work in progress via the digital skill learning.. And to be honest with you reader, I have been taking it one day at a time and it's been amazing making this decision. I've been at peace with myself for taking this bold step and I hope it pays off soon.. I must blow on my own one day even without having to work for anyone I believe!
When I look at how far I've come and how I've improved so well in life all I can say to that very organization (name withheld) is...
Thank you for rejecting me!🥲
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The things that i've leaned when i rejected i a company i always keep moving forward, i dont care how many time i got rejected, Thanks for sharing the great experience 😊👋
Yes dear! I love the spirit ✊✊
We keep moving forward regardless!
You're welcome dear 🤗
Thanks for visiting my blog too!
I know this would be so sad for you. But I would say keep pushing until something good happen. The best is yet to come. These are the challenges we face in life.
Thanks for your kind words dear!
Yea! I believe the best is yet to come😊✊
Disappointments like that help to make us stronger. I'm not saying we deserve them, but they help us grow. One valuable lesson, never put your trust in a person. Glad you came out stronger though. Well done.
Yea! Sure ..
I believe everything happens for a reason and in my own case, the rejection even made me more stronger💪
Yea! That's true
Thanks for stopping by dear🤗
You're very welcome. Love your work 🌺
Thank you dear💕
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The issue of tribalism is very rampant in this country of ours. Schools, business, offices, etc are not spared. It's really frustrating but then we must survive. It's their loss and fortunately for you, that rejection made you a better version.
Digital skills are very lucrative and I'm certain that it'll pay off soon.
Good luck dear and thanks for sharing this! ❤️
Yes my dear.. It's so sad
We keep pushing regardless because I've come to realize that everything happens for a reason and in my own case, it has made stronger..
I believe so too!
Thank you dear and thanks for stopping by 🤗
This must have been such a very tough experience all through, I must say. But somehow this experiences has led you to a place of satisfaction and self discovery which I believe would pay off very soon if you don't give up... Am glad you didn't allow this experience limit you. Cheers! to the boss of herself💪
It's been tough really..
Yea! I believe it will pay off soon..
Hehehehe 😅
Thanks for giving me the "boss" title my big boss✊
Don't even start😃.
Respect sir ✊
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Well... This looks kike you managed to dodge a trap. After all the rejections, you found wisdom in working for yourself and being your own boss. You are doing well.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
I know right?😅
Thank you!