You are right, you know atimes I am disappointed to some husband on the way they brag about how they changed their wives especially if she comes from a poor background. And to some what they do or gift their wives. I mean if you don't do it who will do it? Even to your own responsibility, you still brag?
A friend of mine got embarrassed by her own husband in the presence of friends due to this bragging stuff but that's a story for another day shaa😀
You see what I am talking about. Generally, I can't make friends with people that do this. I can't stay close to them before they do a little assistance for me and turn it to something bigger than it actually is.