Hello, everyone.
Welcome to my blog and another wonderful edition of the hive learners' featured post. For sure, we are all wired differently and carry different personalities. Growing up changed a lot of things in my life. I am so certain that the little me and the me of today are completely different people.
While growing up, I found it difficult to abstain from visiting the playground, no matter how hard my parents tried to make sure I always stayed indoors. I always sneak out of the house. I already have my mind made up for whatever will come later, but first of all, I really need to have fun.
I was famous for how I normally played around with friends and even those who were older than me. Playing was the code to gain access to my life. I miss the life I lived while growing up. I grew up into someone different. I find it very hard to associate with people. I just want to be left alone all the time. Even when people try to get close to me, I tend to push them away. I just keep thanking God for my type of friend.
Some people say I am weird, while some say my introverted way of life is on another level. I find it hard to play these days. Friends I grew up with keep complaining, and I always apologise for my type of lifestyle. I promise them I'd change, but I just can't help it.
At this point, you can stand and they will just jump on your back. At this point, I try with everything I have to reciprocate, but sometimes I fail. Where they are getting it all wrong is expecting me to jump on their back as well. I find it hard to play with friends; some even say it's pride, but I don't know why it's so hard for me.
I have tried playing many times just to make friends happy and comfortable around me, but I failed. I might have in mind that when we see, I will try to play, and when we eventually cross paths, I will just forget about what I had in mind earlier. If this is really the introvert's way of life, then I don't think I want to be one because sometimes it gets boring.
Since I can't play, I found other ways to keep company. I tease friends a lot. To some extent, this makes us even, but they still want me to be that type of person that plays as well. I just wish I could.
Thanks for reading my post.
Not everyone will mingle like others that's why we are different but then at least have some good friends they can be very helpful, maybe not now but later
I am trying my best to keep a few as my way of life makes them to cut off once they get tired of trying.
I understand tho but you shouldn't cut your friends
Sincerely with this, I just don't see any thing wrong man. It's a stga eof life we grow up and the angle at which we see life now is quite different from the way others do. Self Attainments before meaningless association man. But on the other hand a little fun wouldn't kill us though.
Stay winning Blood💙💙💚✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿
The angle at which we see life now ain't funny at all, we still need a small circle at least.
Thanks for reading bro.
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Wow...I understand your life style. Some people are just designed this way, however if you truly want to come out of it, you can work on it. Your friends need you @offia66 😂
Break lose and mingle 😂👍
I think I need help 😔, cause I have tried all I know.
Thanks for stopping by.
Talk to me too 😔🤪🤪 I am still trying to mingle in the public but something I am not used to, it's difficult 😬😬☹️
Being an introvert sucks at times because I am one and many times, they want me to socialize but I just couldn't because I am that shy type that prefers her space than being the center of attention everywhere.
This sounds very funny, but I am like that too, you know people will say you are over serious. Life is more fun when one is alone broh, no disturbance, no request and no thinking of having to please anyone. But I think you should work on it seriously, we need people around us, one tree can not make a forest.
You're exactly like me! I was a very playful kid and I spent all my time outside, I got in a lot of fights and brought problems back home to my parents, I was very popular and friendly but things changed over the years. Now I am always indoors and hardly mingle with people, I always come up with an excuse whenever a friend invites me out, I just want to be on my own. You're not alone bro, a lot of us also have the same experience and it's not weird
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Eeyah...
I know how it feels, being as if you are the only one that's different. Bit we all learned to deal with it.
Thank you for sharing this with us.