Remaining in a toxic relationship isn't advisable.
Greetings everyone!
Keeping a toxic relationship is like wishing death on yourself or your destiny. This means you don't love yourself and your future if you have envisioned it clearly and know where you are going. You will not waste your time in a toxic relationship.
I love myself because I'm not moved by what people have or inherit through my family members, male friends, and female friends. I'm satisfied with what I have and where I am.
The affluence of my male friend can't keep me in a toxic relationship with him. I will be plain here because my gender wants to kill themselves, having seen the maltreatment from the opposite partner, they still want to stay because of money. God created us for a purpose and it is for us to utilize it massively. God said we should pursue wisdom; when you have it, you have everything, including life. But money can't give you life. As a lady, if you are still in a toxic relationship with a man because of money, you want to die physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
Wisdom is profitable. As a young lady, get up and do something that will bring money for yourself and your family. By doing this, you will have every reason not to be in any toxic relationship. This is how dignity and respect come your way as a lady.
However, many of my family members that I don't get mingled with because I don't want to be intoxicated by their character and other things, this alone can drain you.
I had a female neighbor whose parents weren't financially stable; she had a male friend who was wealthy enough to cater to her needs. From this young man, she completed her secondary education by writing WASCE and NECO and then furthered her education in a tertiary institution. In her year 2, the young man started giving her attitude, like beating her. The man continued beating her, till she got wounded, blood gushed out of her face and body. But she remains in that relationship, due to her academic pursuit, just for the man to support her financially. She would be the one to apologize to the man even when she is not wrong. What a suffering, offering her body, receiving beatings and support too. This relationship is too toxic.
Money doesn't determine your future and a toxic relationship doesn't determine your future. We can only be in a relationship that will be a ladder to where we are going and not intoxicate you.
This advice is for my gender: no matter the background you are coming from, poor or rich, don't disgrace yourself. If your parents are not capable of sponsoring you, get a skill or something that will money. And to be contented, you have to avoid embarrassment from a man.
Let go of any relationship that does not give you peace of mind.
This post is in response to the #Hivelearners featured contest, week 147 edition.
I love, I care, and forgive
I remain @peckypeace
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Truly, any relationship that deprive you of your peace of mind is not worth staying .
Nice write up
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