I know it's a new year and probably a little bit too early for me to be talking about love, but unfortunately it's just me and a couple of guys left at my hostel, so whenever we gather around, about more than thirty percent of our conversation revolves around women and relationship...and seeing how about eighty percent of the things I write here has to do with my life and things I see and hear day to day, it is only normal for me to bring it on here too....so bear with me.
Anyways, a buddy of mine has a problem, one that surprisingly I couldn't find an answer to on my own.. It's a surprise because I'm usually an expert (or at least that is what I think) when it comes to relationship matters. I think it's safe to say that it's a God-given talent.
Well, this friend of mine happens to think he's falling out of love with his girlfriend and he doesn't know what to do.
Now the reason why he thinks he's falling out of love with her is because he no longer see himself reacting to things that concerns her, the normal way he usually would react. Like the other day, he had gone through her text messages and saw her text with some other guy at her place of work.
According to him, these were text messages that normally would have gotten him infuriated and probably heart broken, but instead he had seen it and didn't really care as much as he would have. He felt a bit hurt by what he saw, but he wasn't as hurt as he thought he would be for a situation like that.
And now he's wondering if he has gotten to that stage where he no longer loves her like he used to and if he should just give up on the relationship, because what's the use being in a relationship with someone you no longer love as much as you should, or as much as you used to?
Usually, my response would be for him to leave her because he clearly doesn't love her as much, but if the option was that simple, he wouldn't bring it up to us to talk about it.. So what do you guys think he should do in this situation??
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I agree with you. In fact, I feel that this guy is trying to find an excuse to break up with the lady and he just asked your opinion to console his mind. That's all. I was never in a relationship but I can understand the psychology quite well. So, I think breaking up is the best solution at least for the lady.
I honestly doubt that his intentions has always been to break up with her.. It could be that the text messages he saw are what is giving him those thoughts.