I have always come across some traders like the first woman, though not like how yours was. Many of them would show concern and attend to you in the best way and make you want to keep patronising them because of their niceness and ability to attend to customers in the best way.
Now, for the other trader who is also your church member and you said she's close to you. What do you expect? She has seen you as someone she could easily cheat on because she knows you'd pay but people like them forget that such act can never go on forever, someday, the truth will suffice and that could ruin the relationship. Some people like to take people's good looking status for an advantage and it's wrong.
My look is only deceiving them princess 🤦...me that is still a Hustler, they want to send me back to village... lolz, I jump and pass
It's really not nice taking advantage of your fellow human because u can... nothing lasts forever..now, she stopped seeing me for ages including my friends I may have recommended to her..shame!