Today's story is a memorable incident of college life.
I usually hear everyone say that no one can do anything without giving it. It felt good that I had to get into a lot of trouble for it. So I now try to listen to others less. However, it is very often one of the things that doesn't happen.
When I was in college in the city one of my cousins gave me a mobile to fix. The front glass of the mobile was completely broken. When I showed it to the shop to get rid of it, the shopkeeper told me to pay an amount, then I told his brother that it can be fixed in this way for that amount of money and explained to him in detail about it. What happened could be fixed but it wouldn't be very sustainable. It might be ruined again I talked to him about it and he said ok you fix it. Then I fixed the mobile with the money I had from the shop. I was living in the city and attending college. I paid half of my full month's expenses to fix the mobile with my own money.
But when I gave him the mobile when I told him about the money he said but I will give it to you but two to three to four like this in empty days it started increasing after a whole week when I ran the money to him he told me that the mobile from him was broken again. Went and he said that the skin applied to the mobile was not good and he also refused to pay my money. I told him that you were fixing mobile to me I fixed your mobile now you give my money so that I I can manage my monthly expenses. But I had nothing to do when he refused to pay no matter how hard I tried to convince him.
But when I told this to my family and they all started blaming me saying why didn't you take the money earlier and get it done. Thus everyone puts the entire blame on me. I have nothing to do and nothing to say. I thought him my brother and did this to him, but he was unfaithful to me. And the whole family is blaming me. I suffered a lot because of this and I had to compensate myself by raising money from that house.
From then on, whoever asked me to do any work that required money, I would tell him in advance that if he paid first, I would not be able to do his work. It taught me a lot about not trusting everyone no matter how good they are. Even though I thought of him as a brother, he treated me unfairly.
From my side I feel that it is really unfair to me because he has wronged me in what I did considering him as my brother and now my family members spoke against me saying that it was my fault. I have to pay for the damage. Hope this doesn't happen to anyone else.
Thanks everyone for reading this to the end. I conclude by wishing you well.
The close ones will always hurt you and it’s always proven. Sometimes you think of someone as a close one but they only wants to use you for their benefit.
Yeah, sadly that is the reality.
I can understand and feel your pain bro.
The rule I always follow is payment before service and it always work for me both for friends and family
Sorry you had to go through that
you are right i should do payment before service. But not everyone is not same. Sometime close one can betray, you can't prevent that.
Yeah yeah
That’s true. Most close one are the one who abuse this privilege
i always have this belief when it comes to money talks. expect the worst when dealing with money.
but still trust in humanity, ok.
Not everyone is same.
Thank You
It's tough to deal with betrayal, especially from someone you considered close. It's a hard lesson to learn, but it's important to set clear boundaries and ensure mutual understanding, especially when money is involved.
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Yeah some time you can't prevent that. Still you can't judge everyone based on one person. There are a lot who cares about you.
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