Having read your other post today and listening to your video, @meno, I note you end with a question:
"Am I making sense?"
FWIW, I think so. Being persuasive. Being effective. Versus being self righteous. It should be clear enough, for most anyone with any experience in life, which side of this spectrum is preferable.
I would add being kind and being patient. In doing what? Giving these so called "bad actors" the benefit of the doubt. In my limited time experiencing already too much of these behavior modification exercises or whatever else one would call them, this is in short supply.
I will leave it here. For your encouragement, I just want you to know there are accounts paying attention to how this is being worked out. Mine being one of them, so I need to make that known.
This makes me happy quark...
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