Sharing the birth is a balance between mother and father

in Hive Learners3 months ago (edited)

Today is a good topic to reflect on a life event called motherhood.
I am the father of two children, one aged 8 and the other aged twelve, both boys, for me they are my life, they are the beings I love most in this world and I want to provide them with all the good things I can within my means.

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Motherhood is always closely linked to the female part, it is generally more linked to women as human beings since it is within them that the entire process of gestation of the fetus that will give rise to a new human life takes place.
but the role of men evolved in this aspect over time, women were seen as a person to take care of the house and children, but in more developed countries, especially human minds have evolved, and nowadays there is a more balanced sharing of tasks including today's theme on motherhood and childcare.

We can begin our reflection by realizing that for there to be a new life there must be the sharing of two beings together, the man naturally contributes his part to generate procreation and the woman develops within herself all the human mechanisms to carry out the gestation of this new life.
For this reason, I understand that parental responsibilities must be shared, with a balance between the man and the woman in relation to the responsibilities of caring for the children, and for this reason I think that in today's times the father also plays an important role and that You must even share parental leave with your mother.

In my case, as I said before, I have two children and it was decided that I would take care of each one for a month, after the end of the mother's maternity leave, which is said in my country to be a shared leave.

For me as a father, it was a joy to take care of my children, give them milk, change their diapers, wear those cute clothes in tiny sizes, hold them on my lap, put their little heads on my shoulder and often put them to sleep and I even fell asleep with them.
It is a sharing of love and affection that I consider the greatest in the world, these are moments of love that should be shared by both mothers and fathers in a harmony of family love.

The sharing of love must be a communion throughout our lives, for this reason I feel that both men and women must participate in this wonderful event that life gives us, of being able to be loved and to have a being of our own that will one day be from the world. of us and we must together give him this love and affection, I am completely in favor of this sharing of leave between men and women, I even think that it should be the same in all countries in the world, although I know that in many there is still a big difference Regarding this subject, I think we are moving forward so that one day the sharing of this event that is generating and caring for a new life is equally shared by fathers and mothers from all over the world

This photograph in this Post is mine and it is my family together

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 3 months ago  

From all the perspective kids are the responsibilities of both parents but cultural norms vary. I support during pregnancy mother plays all of her part individually but after birth father must come forward to maintain the balance. I am much delighted to know that you are taking care of even minor details to make your family unified even after the child birth. It's not easy to put the male ego on side and coming forward to assist the wife. Much love and appreciation from my side💓 !LUV

 3 months ago  

Thank you for your comment, I always made a point of being present to support my wife in all these moments, because the more united we are, and the more we share, the more our love will be

 3 months ago  

Love is the thing which is not written in any agreement it's being established and earned 💓 good regards for both of you 💚

 3 months ago  

That's nice of you, bonding together or having time for your family especially your kids makes you guys have a strong bond. And am happy that you are also taking part in taking care of your kids, that's great of you.