Hi friends, hope you are well and doing your best. It is my entry into another contest by the #Hivelearners community.
Its topic is"The lesson which I have learned from the previous year".
We are learning new things every second. Sometimes we learn from the good things that happened in our life, and sometimes we learn from the bad happenings. A bad time teaches more than a good time.
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Last year was a good teacher for me
. I learned many lessons from the difficult time I faced in the previous year. Time is the best teacher, teaching a lesson that no one can teach. Ups and downs are part of our life. Life teaches you a great lesson.
I learned to ignore the words of people
As I belong to a brown family, and people like us are slaves to their traditions, they always care about their reputation and what people say about them, therefore people use to say about everyone. They like to do backbiting. It is difficult to move on in such conditions. But I learned how to move in this environment where negativity is spread everywhere.
If our days are good, every person will respect us, but if our time is not going well, we can see the actual face of this world.
Our bad days increase our thinking and help us to understand the behavior of people around us. I have also learned how to ignore the harsh words of people and search for positivity around me.
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I learned to move
This year was the completion of my degree and I started my job, I learned that being practical is very difficult in life. When we do a job, there are a lot of difficulties, especially for women, I learned how to face the difficulties and ignore the negative people. I have come to know that there is a mixture of good and bad everywhere, if we will always focus on the bad face of things, it would be difficult to move on.
I recognized myself
I learned how to recognize our abilities, and Hive helped me to recognize myself.
I have always loved to write. I have been a writer since my childhood, but now I found this platform. I learned to relax my mind by expressing myself. I learned to express my feelings in the hive. Now I don't become depressed due to hive. I learned about hives in my past year.
I learned to make good friends. I learned that the people who always remain with us are not our best friends but the people who understand us, and who are sincere with us are best for us. I learn to become more social.
I have learned to be mature
I learned many things. I think I have become mature last year because I was not serious with myself. I left my childish behavior last year. I used to keep a book in my hand and took little attention to my family affairs, my family considered me a bookworm but now I learned to talk about all issues discussed. I used to agree with everything, and always said yes to everyone but I have learned that we should learn to say no if we don't like or disagree from the core of our hearts.
I learned to be calm and cool and to hide my internal feelings before our enemies. I learned that we should not discuss our affairs before everyone.
I learned to be strong.
Thank you so much to read
I imagined how it would have felt saying yes to almost everything and not speaking out. Being able to say no to things you don't agree on shows a sign you are getting matured.
Yeah, but to say 'no' means to take decisions and to decide what to do and what to leave instead of obeying the orders of every person.
It means becoming responsible for one's words and the thinking process that occurs before a final decision which doesn't occur in childhood in some people😊.
Thank you so much🤗🤗to read with patience and to comment.
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It is a very good thing that you have learned many things. If we look carefully, we get to learn something every day. If we keep learning something everyday, then one day we can definitely become successfuland You should not have to left up childish behavior, sometimes it is also necessary.😁
Yeah, the learning process occurs throughout the whole life.
We have to leave childish behavior due to the circumstances that occur in life. Also, a common sentence by
the siblings (you are still a kid) force us to leave the childish behavior😄😄.
Didn't you hear this sentence from your elder brothers🤭.
I don't have any elder siblings😌 but my mom and my younger sister say that to me .😂😂
Making good friends that help in achieving goals is a very nice step. I joined this HIVE Platform through the kind of friends I keep and I have no regrets about it
Yeah, I have also come here through one of my friends, who helps me to solve every issue. Good friends are like a rose having fragrance until it withers out but bad friends are worst than enemies.
Because if they will not harm us intentionally, we will get harmed by taking their bad habits.
With time we learn. Time and situation give us a great lesson.
In the case of recognizing ourselves, I think there are still many things about that we don't know.
And in the case of maturity, I think nobody is mature. It's because we may think that we are mature now but after several years we may think how immature we were😂 .
We develop personalized learning in daily life, and that is the reason we don't know about ourselves because we change our habits with the change of situations.
We can become happy to think like a wise person😄😄. It gives us internal happiness.
I believe that we can do many things and we have many hidden abilities. We can realise it depending on situation. 🙂
It's amazing how you moved through all the challenges life brought congratulations on your achievements.
Yeah, challenges help us to be brave and face them with courage. We all face challenges sometimes in our lives, life is a mixture of sweet and sour experiences.
Thank you🤗🤗😊 so much to read and leave a beautiful comment.
Thanks for sharing this☺☺...
This is very true because when life keeps bringing good things to our lives, we won't have time to learn something good but when it's the other way round, we will definitely learn big lessons.
Life has taught you a lot and you took them and improved in many ways. I wish you the best in the new year.
I came to your post through Dreemport 🤗
Thank you so much🤗 to comment and for your best wishes.
Happy new year to you too dearly.
You are welcome 🙂
You quite Learnt a Lot you are the Best version of yourself and treating yourself with utmost priority won't be s bad idea 🙏🙏
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Thank you so much 🤗🤗dearly for such a nice comment.
Happy new year.
You are highly welcome 😁
Best wishes 😃🙏