I am sick of that Lichess mobile app, which can send notifications about private messages, but cannot send me a notification when I get a pairing while using another app. Therefore I lose so many games by not moving, moreover, last tournament I lost another match that way because of... reading a message from Lichess that I lose too many games by not moving and I might obtain ban soon...
Lichess is opensource, I am really starting to think that I need to code that function by myself for myself....But I had 0 coincidence with programming mobile apps so far in my life, and I need to learn other things at that moment...
Please read the book "Waiting for Godod" from Beckett.
Now I understand your ratings better, if you are on some other things during playing chess :)