It seems to be the norm for people to have the expecttion that things will happen the way they want them to without any effort at all, I speak generally of course. It's not the case of course. Effort is required and many other elements and for those willing to put it in then things can happen.
We live in a world where people can choose to identify as the opposite gender, or even no gender...so why not delude oneself that one is an astronaut or a brain surgeon, fighter pilot or whatever. It's easy, just identify as that. 🤐