Marriage is an excellent tradition that takes our life forward and also helps in increasing our race. Marriage is an event that binds humans in the bond of marriage and makes them companions for each other, and also makes them confidants of each other.
Marriage is something whose tradition is all over the world. In every nation and religion, marriage is considered a good deed and has been declared lawful. That's why we should take the customs of marriage seriously and try to perform this act as early as possible, which is a good thing.
By doing this, many evils can be eradicated from society, such as kidnapping, rape, prostitution, and other bad practices can be removed from society.
When you get married, you become confident that now my life has changed, and now I don't have to look at others' rights. Those who get married have one thing in mind that now I won't look at any other woman with bad eyes or look at any other man with lustful eyes.
Whatever it is, my wife or husband is mine, and we have to live a good life together. To give to each other, to participate in each other's sorrow and happiness, to make each other confidants, and this is called the excellent act of marriage.
Now the question arises that which relationship is more better and successful, whether it is an arranged marriage or a love marriage. Everyone will have their own perspective on this, and it's not necessary that everyone agrees on this.
I will present my perspective on this; in my opinion, arranged marriage is the best and most successful. The biggest reason is that you choose a match according to proper principles. For example, my father and mother choose a woman for my marriage who is better for me in every way.
A woman who is not of bad character, not of bad reputation, not greedy, faithful to me, and whose habits match mine. After choosing all these, I can spend a successful life with my wife.
One of the biggest advantages of arranged marriage is that you can spend a long and successful life. According to a report, 60% of people get married through arranged marriage, 30% through love marriage, and 10% do not get married at all.
You can find out yourself that those who get married through arranged marriage have a successful relationship. Often, where difficulties arise, it is with those who get married through love. The biggest disadvantage of love marriage is that you get married based on looks.
Getting married based on looks leads to difficulties. Looks do not last forever, but character does. That's why arranged marriage should be done, and character should be given more importance than looks.
Original content in Roman Urdu, Translated via ChatGPT
Shaadi aik behtareen riwaj hai apni zindagi ko agay le jani ki orr saath mei apni nasal ko barhanay ky liye. Shaadi aik aisi event hai jo insaan ko izdawaj kay bandhan mei jorta hai orr aik dossray kay liye mehram banata hai orr saath mei aik dosray ka raaz daar banata hai.
Shaadi aik aisa cheez hai jiski riwaj poray duny mei hai. har qoum or mazhab mei shadi aik achi amal hai orr isko halal qarar diya gaya hai.
Issi liye hamay chahiye keh shaadi kay mamulay ko serious liya jaye orr iss amal ko jitni kum umer mei anjaam diya jaye achi baat hai. Iss kay karnay se muashray mei bohot se burayo ko door kiya ja sakta hai.
Jaise kidnapping, rape, badkaari, orr dosray buray kaamo ko muashray se door kiya ja sakta hai. aap jb shadi kar letay ho toh mutmayin ho jatay ho keh abb meri zindagi badal gayi hai orr abb mene dosray kay haqooq ko nahi dekna hai.
Jo log shadi kartay hai unki dimagh mei aik chiz ajati hai keh abb kisi dosray orat ko buray nazro se nahi dekni ya phir kisi dosray mard ko shehwat ki nigha se nahi dekna.
Bus jo b hai meri biwi ya shohar hai, hamay har haal mei behtareen zingagi guzarni hai. Aik dosray kay saath dena hai, gham or khushi mei aik dosray kay saath shamil hona hai, aik dosray ko raazdar banana hai orr isii ko shadi ka behtaren amal kaha jata hai.
Abb sawal yeh paida hota hai keh konsa rishta ziada behtar or kamyab hai, aya arrange shaadi ya phir love marriage. Iss per har kisi ka apni nazar hogi orr lazmi nahi har koi iss bat par mutafiq b ho.
Mei apni nazar pesh karunga iss baray mei, meri nazar mei arrange marriage sb se behtar or kamyab hai. iski bari waja kay aap aik proper asoolo se jori ka intakhab kartay hai.
Misaal kay tor per, meray abu, ammi meri shadi kay liye aik orat ka intakhab karti hai jo har lihaz se meray liye behtar ho. Aisi orat jo bad ikhlaq na ho, bad guman na ho, lalichi na ho, meray saath wafadar ho orr uski adaat muj se milti julti hai.
Inn sb kay intakhab kay baad mei aik kamyab zindagi apni biwi kay saath guzar sakta hou. Arrange marriage ki aik badi khasosiat yahi keh aap lambi or kamyab zindagi guzar sakay ge. Aik report kay mutabiq 60% log arrange marriage barguzar kartay hai or 30% love marriage, baqi 10% shadi he nahi kartay.
Aap khud pata laga sakey ge, jo arrange marriage kartay hai unka rishta kamyab hota hai. Aksar jaha mushkil pesh aati hai wo love marriage walo kay saath hai. Love marriage ka bara nuqsan kay aap sirf soorat per inhasar kar kay shadi kartay hay.
Soorat ko daik kar shadi karnay se mushkilat pesh aati hai. Soorat akhir tak nahi rehti jb kay seerat akhir tak reh jati hai. Issi liye chahye arrange marriage kiya jaye, soorat se ziada seerat ko tarjeed diya jaye.
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Wow, interesting! There's no such things as arranged marriage in my country but you do have a point. I am married for love but I don't think the marriage itself provides any benefits other than practical ones, we are not religious so it just was easier to buy a house and have children while being married.
I don't need a piece of paper - a marriage is nothing more for me - to prove my love for my wife. 16 years and counting and indeed the looks doesn't last but that goes both ways, we're fine with that 🤎😊
This is beautifully written. I think for a marriage to last long it all depends on the individuals if they are willing to do whatever it takes to make the marriage works be it arranged or love marriage.
I am married to a man I love so much, and I must say that things are going well for us, there's mutual respect and understanding in our marriage