So good to read that another couple is going to be married. Have you made up your mind which stone it is going to be on the ring?
People say, "No one should complete you. You should be complete on your own."
I find that to be such self-centered and narcissistic trash, that I never entertain anyone who spouts it.
HaHa! Agree on that :)
Apart from being an empty phrase, it is impossible to achieve completeness on "my own". At the beginning of my life, my mother completes me, her breast nourishes me. Later it is my family, then, when I have learned to read and write, it is the legacy of those I read (the giants on whose shoulders I stand) and when I die, I do not want to die miserable, lonely and abandoned. Both at birth and at death, I can only be myself if I am supplemented by the self of others. Everything in between, I depend on other people who show me how to work, how to learn, how to live my life practically and theoretically and can learn something about it. Likewise, others learn through me, and I complete everyone I meet in life with through what I express and believe in. Even if it means a person rejects me.
All the best to you and your soon-to-be wife.