December thoughts on life as a girl. Day 20

in Freewriters2 days ago

Life is "live for yourself".
The moment you start living for people and letting people control your life, you're just one step closer to hell.

I've had people control my life before and tell me what I should do and it wasn't fun for me.
I've hung out with people that i called friends but i had to try very hard to meet up with them or impress them.
In those moments, I lost myself and my identity and I was just living to please people.
It broke me badly when the same people didn't think I wasn't important anymore.

Ever since then, I took and dusted myself up really good, found purpose and worked on myself and I can really say I'm impressed so far with the little steps I'm taking for myself.

There is not one soul that can intimidate me, make me feel less of myself or control me without my permission.
This, I had to learn through a bitter experience.
People matter to me until they don't want to anymore with their actions.

Life is "live for yourself".