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RE: Don't compare your child with others

in Freewriters3 years ago

Hello, friend @gohar-ali

Interesting article that you write today.

It is very common for parents to compare their children with other children as a strategy for them to do things they do not want.

This is a big mistake.

I remember that in my childhood, I ate little and all the adults in my family came up with the great idea of always comparing me to chubby girls who were this beautiful because they ate a lot.

As a result, I had frustrating adolescence, as I was fat and felt ugly compared to the others.

Overcoming these childhood traumas requires a long and painful process.

Better, it would be to stop comparing children and accept that they are all beautiful, although each one is different.

A hug

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Right we all suffer this type of comparison, fat or thin, or dull skin color. this comparison steals the joy of childhood. i don't want to go to family gatherings.
Adults should avoid this practice.