Today I want to write about freedom. Freedom, which I have experienced in many various forms, and I still hope to experience it in my life. This topic is like honey for me, because freedom has been and is a priority for me all my life.
Some dream of wealth, others of love, others of grandchildren, and I always dream only of freedom. When I think of wishes, it is not difficult for me, even when a star is falling in the autumn sky, I always know what I want. Freedom.
Freedom always comes at a cost
I have experienced many liberations and I know their taste. Freedom never comes easily or for nothing. Freedom always comes at a cost. But, in my opinion, any price is too low.
From an early age, I was looking for freedom when I escaped from the kindergarten and went to play in the yard with the most swings. They searched for me, found me, scolded me, punished, but then I yearned for freedom even more. I dreamed how I would live alone and no one would guide me. I always fought for the freedom not to eat what I didn't want, not to go home from the yard on time, and not to play with pretty dolls, but with witches of my own making. My parents were always unhappy with me because they couldn't control that freedom in me.
Later - school. That thirst for freedom was difficult to control even more there. My parents never spoke out against the authorities and did not show any similar manifestations as I did, so they always wondered, where did I get all this from?
All are born free
I think the need to choose for yourself is innate. All people are free, they are born free and only later learn that their freedom can be taken away from them. Some accept it, others have not even experienced its taste, so they don't even think about it, and others, like me, apparently tasted the taste of freedom with the milk of that cow that grazed on the meadow, saw people traveling freely around the world.
In adolescence, this need for freedom became so strong that my parents simply gave up and stopped being interested in me. I only attended classes that I was interested in. I didn't wear a uniform, which was mandatory, but a black granny dress and I was a real punk. My parents were harassed by the school principal and threatened that I would end my life badly if they did not deal with their child. At school, I often "sat on the mat" with the principal, who tried to instill in me a sense of fear by appealing to prison and other horrors. Guaranteed me that if I continued to act like this, I would end up among the vagrants and drug addicts. But it only fueled my need for freedom even more.
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And today I have that freedom: I can live wherever I want, travel, socialize, dress and cut my hair as I want, love who I want, but it's not enough for me at all.
As soon as I tried the office job, I immediately realized that I wanted freedom here as well. I didn't like having to work according to someone else's schedule and rules, so I started looking for ways to break out of restrictive offices and bosses. When I achieved this, I began to fight for freedom in a relationship where partners are equal and can freely express their interests and needs. I always needed to say what I thought and represent my opinion, because otherwise my inner freedom, which I had so hard preserved, could suffer.
And you know, that search for freedom will never end, because after discovering one freedom, I started looking for others. When you feel the freedom to say what you think to others, you want the freedom to say it to yourself - to tell yourself when you're wrong, when you're being rude, or that you're not trying too hard. In the same way, I need to find the freedom to create the way I like the most, without trying to please someone. And there is also the freedom to love myself, myself as I am, with all my "beauties". Every day in my mind I give thanks for freedom and ask for freedom. Because nothing is more precious, at least to me.
I want to say that there is no need to fear freedom, it is necessary to fight for it and be responsible. You just need to be responsible for what you do with that freedom later. You need to try to have the freedom to decide and choose for yourself, and you also need to have courage. Because without courage there will be no freedom, everything that is free is courageous.
I am not different from others, but I am not afraid to do what I want to do. And it's not just scary, it's just amazing. This is the most wonderful thing in life - not to please anyone, not to be humiliated and feel free, a proud person.
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This is a beautiful and well-written post. As a freedom lover myself, I relate to most of the things you have shared here. It has always been my life goal to do and live life on my own terms.
I loved what you said about responsibility because with freedom comes a great deal of it, and I do not shy away from it. If I get to choose, then I have to deal with every consequence of my action.
Thank you for sharing this piece on #dreemport cause that's how I got here. Stay amazing.
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Hi! I'm dreemie hehehe and I have had your post up on my tabs for a bit now... and life has become very chaotic for me and I am just now getting to sit down and read your post!!! thanks to @jamerussell for showcasing you in his HHYM posts that feature newbies! hehehe
and WOW!!!!!!!!!! wow wow wow!!!! This post just SINGS with power!!! I love that I got SUCH a picture of you all along your life and what an independent spirit you are!!!
I'm going to tag a few people that I think would love reading this post of yours hehehe some "kindred spirits" maybe! @penderis @samsmith1971 @kenechukwu97 @kemmyb @strega.azure
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Welcome to Hive... and I can't wait to read more of you hehehe
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Freedom is indeed important :) I'm glad you are living the life you have always wanted 🙌
Where did you find your images :) ?
The images you have shared are beautiful. It's good to be able to experience happiness sometimes. very successful
I enjoyed your introductory post and loved reading this one too🤗 You take us on this wonderful tour de force of your life by showcasing a simple and powerful concept and state of being. Freedom can mean so many things but to you, it really does boil down simply to being able to be your own autonomous self - for people to have unconditional acceptance of personal choice and not feel beholden to the constructs and constraints of societal pressure. Conquering fear. What a beautiful feeling.
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Freedom matters for people who have tasted it firsthand. The taste is divine and can't be questioned. The taste is beyond man's intelligence. it is super great.
Getting freedom starved is bad and that is why we must learn to be free. Being in bondage Is no fun as it affects us badly. It is like a robot being directed and this is why freedom is the ultimate goal.
I waltzed in through Dreemport.😁
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Welcome to Hive once again, I found your post on #dreemport because I am a #dreemer.
Freedom is something we all crave and I am glad that you are happy with the measure of freedom you've gotten.
Thanks for sharing.
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Beautifully written!
I guess I might not be able to fully relate with your sense freedom because unlike you, I lack the courage that comes with yearning for freedom and seeking it. The restrictions of society did get to me and I care about what people think and how my actions affect people around me, at least the important people in my life.
But regardless, I do sometimes feel the need to be free of the shackles of society and just do whatever it is I want to do. Only if our actions didn't stimulate a reaction, then we would all be able to do as our heart pleases.
I was a pleasure reading this!
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Hello friend, yes I did it from dreemport but I was not aware of the tag, sorry. of course I would like the reward. :)
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I did make the comment to participate in the dreemport bounty!
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I get it now🤗
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When I was in highschool freedom from my parents house was all I could think of, I couldn't wait for college so I could finally travel outside and have my own apartment since I didn't plan on staying in the dormitory. But, after my first year in college, I realized freedom is really in the mind. Although physical restrictions play alot but if one is not free inside then the struggle for freedom would continue. Now it doesn't matter where I go anymore. I've come to set myself out of a cage that wasn't just my parents house.
Thank you for this article and welcome to Hive.
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Very important topic. Very well written article!
Freedom is unquestionably one of the most essential aspects of life. It allows individuals to make their own choices, pursue their passions, and live their lives without interference from others.
With freedom comes the power to shape your own destiny and create the future that you actually want.
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You writing is powerful. I love how your effortlessly expressive about your freedom. Not many people are able to go for what they want including me. I have to show respect to the people who raise me so whatever I'm told to not do, I try to not do them.
I keep pondering on the number of things that could happen if only I could be just as free but then, I guess one day I'll get there.
Enjoy your long walk of freedom and stay courageous. Well done!
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I feel sad that I missed this post and couldn't upvote it. But I'll gift you with Hive instead because I feel that you're an exceptional woman and that you're lovely and that you deserve all the freedom you need in this world and more.
I'm happy you're doing what you want and I'm sorry that your parents don't see the gift of a child they have. That your search for freedom is a blessing and not a curse.
I !luv your writing and I hope you always have a reason to smile and be truly and absolutely FREE.🤗💜
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That's lovely indeed. Thank you.😊
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A wonderful post about freedom! I love the fact that it is not free and we have to fight for it. Conformity to the status quo is definitely not my cup of tea. Life gets boring and we lose our individuality.
A warm welcome to Hive :)
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Hello!
Yes, I did.
I forget to state it. I'll use the tag now.
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Thank you so much :)
Your images are breathtaking and the yearning for freedom is immerse and insatiable as you have beautifully described here.
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It is very nice what you write, sometimes I felt like that and that's why today at my age I struggle not to feel cornered, imprisoned, denied to do whatever I want.
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Welcome to Hive, your post is interesting.
I love to see more of your post.Am popped in from #dreemport.
Freedom is good and I am saying That a male child has more freedom than a female child.
From childhood to the level of a spinster, parents won't grant you freedom, most times no is the answer to many of your outings.
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That was a very delicate topic and you did justice to it.
There has got a price to pay for Freedom like you said but then the thought of losing that freedom alone isn't a welcoming one at all.
Beautiful really beautiful pictures, you did justice to this topic, FREEDOM.
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The images caught my mind and I almost asked if those were your snaps... especially the lady. Lol😄.
You're specially welcome to this part of the world. You're sure going to enjoy every bit of your stay here.
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Hi, I am @fashtioluwa welcome to hive. what an amazing post. I love the introduction. Hive is a great community where you will meet amazing minds and contents creators that would blow your mind. I would also advise you join #dreemport it will also help too. #dreemerforlife
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You speak of freedom in a very broad aspect that can cause confusion. I love being free, but I think there are times when asserting our right can undermine that of others. I think that being free also implies being empathetic and in solidarity with those who perhaps do not understand it in such a broad way.
It would be interesting to know where you generated the images, since they are very beautiful and well done. Please indicate this detail. Greetings from #Dreemport.
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The images you shared with us here are very much beautiful.
Freedom is essential to everyone and it is a crime if anyone or anything tries to take it away from any given person.
Thank you for stopping by.
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I can totally relate with you, while growing up I wasn't free, I had an over protective father and he was a military officer as well, "Don't do this", "Don't go there", "Don't wear this" and a bunch of other DON'TS, it wasn't easy to break from my family, the more you tried to break free the more trouble you got into and trust me this kept happening for years before I broke free few years ago and the feeling was amazing.
Good thing #dreemport brought me here as I enjoyed reading your post, welcome to Hive dear friend🙂
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Wow @madeirane this was a beautiful read for me, giving more perspective to look at freedom. It isn't something I can talk a lot about but I can tell you really do what freedom is all about and how to utilize it for yourself when given.
I feel freedom is in everyone's wishes and dreams, when they come true, it is in lie freedom to decide to to take it or leave it.
Love your thoughts on freedom really, glad I stopped by from #dreemport
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I wasn't so extreme as you are but I have fair share of stuff done to earn my freedom. It's the sweetest there is. When my classmates and friends are so trapped of other people's expectations for them, I didn't care. I always took the road less traveled and it's amazing!!
Cheers to being free!
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Indeed man in nature wants to be free and can achieve true happiness when he is free. Free from troubles, free from sadness, free from every unpleasant event.
Great post. however, I want to say something. When we are little, we may naturally desire freedom. Freedom from parental watch and all other things, but the fact remains that we do not need freedom at that point. We are limited then by what true freedom is and that is why we have our patents to guide us.
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