Sometimes you have to be alone...

in Freewriters2 years ago

Sometimes you have to be alone... far from noise, dramas, decisions and situations... Sometimes you experience it of your own free will - you take it and move away: to the forest, mountains, by the river, sea, lake or to a remote space not visited by people.

However, it happens that people leave you where you are: they don't write, they don't call, they don't visit, and when you meet them, they don't recognize you and pass by as if you are invisible. It happens...

There are forces that want you to surrender: the emotions, pressure, anxiety, mistrust, doubts... The one who is alone, is easy to influence, but only you know both what you don't want and what you want. Then hours, days or even weeks of solitude can become not a destruction, but a real blessing. When you observe yourself in the world and see more and more clearly who you really are.

There are times when it seems that no one needs you. Or you don't need those you want to be next to. It happens... And it's not people who turn away - this is how the world asks you how important you are to yourself! Will you turn your back on yourself, leave the path you were on and become comfortable for others? Will you stay where you are and still climb your mountain? Even if no one gives you a helping hand and stops to ask: how are you?...

And it's only when you're alone that you begin to separate the boundaries between reality and yourself. You remember who you are and what you have to do. When you are withdrawn (or left) to come back to yourself. You no longer need books, teachers, and teachings. You are the one who knows what determines everything and who needs life experiences.

After meeting yourself, you can go down the mountain and go to where new meetings will take place. So that you listen to other stories in silence and don't want to be heard. In the world, there are many who want to talk and few who know how to listen...

Sometimes you have to be completely alone, stop the carousel of thoughts and recognize a part of yourself in another humans...

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With love, @madeirane
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hi😊aaah alone time... I love the quiet times that I seek out once my children are all tucked up in bed. When it is just me and the stillness of the night. Of course, I sometimes let others in by choice... in my online world...but still, the only sounds are usually the tap tapping on my laptop keys.

Is the image in this post one of yours? If so, I would suggest that you simply state that at the end of your posts eg: All images are mine unless otherwise stated. It's the way things are done on Hive. Images are credited to the people who took them or own the full rights to them, including yourself hehe. It means that curators are not left scratching their heads wondering whether an image may be copyright protected or whether copyright is being infringed or not.

Always a pleasure to read your posts. If you update your image sourcing, then this post could be shared in Dreemport :-)

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Sorry, I'm a bit busy traveling now, but today I decided to check what was going on here. Thank you for your comments and all your advice, I will follow them in my future posts. Yes, the photos are mine, I thought it was enough to add a sign © and obviously the photos and the text are mine. LOL So, thank you very much.

You are very welcome, Luana :-) Yeah, I hear you on the copyright sign etc but it's with Hive it's best to be super clear and simply make a one-line statement that all images are yours unless otherwise accredited or something like that :-) ... hope you are having a lovely holiday... we'll see you when you get back...and if it's after the challenge, no problem, come find me and I will be very happy to help you 💗

Such a heartfelt post. Not abandoning ourselves because we want to fit into the comfort zone of others. I resonate with this post so much because it captures the things I've struggled with in the past. You're an excellent writer and I absolutely !luv your way around words.🤗

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