Quite a lot in here.
First I'd like to contribute that there really isn't a right or wrong decision, people should rather pray to make the ones most appropriate and liable to benefit rather than destruct them...
Positive and Negative, both work together, because if one is at the losing end, definitely another is on the wining edge, so someone excels at last.
That's the balance of nature, someone has to make that decision people will later term "wrong" for someone else somewhere to proceed.
Hope it doesn't sound to contradictory to you :)
I am totally fine with it @malopie. As I had mentioned on my post, these are just "based" on my opinions. I respect the way you interpreted it according to your level of understanding. No worries 😉