Haw!
Thank you 🌺 I learned from a master ;) Not writer but a someone who was into that kind of thing. When he first expressed this thinking, I was a bit skeptical. But then I did some research (of course) and so it is. And an interesting dynamic it is indeed... very powerful, really. Very intimate as well.
The "submissive" actually controls how far things go in the sexual play. Which is the contradiction and misunderstanding, generally. Also... many victims of sexual violence head down this road. It's a way to try and regain power in the situation unconsciously. A way of healing, unconsciously. Isn't that interesting?
But to be done with someone who knows what they're doing! Or I imagine it could make things far, far worse.
I must add that it did help me find my sexuality enormously! After being squished into "nice girls don't like this or do that" for an almost lifetime!
Anyhow...
I meant it in the universal Surrender. Yes. 😊
And thank you <3
Yours too. I love your feistiness and fire!
It takes an enormous amount of intelligence to get me to kneel willingly, you know! Or anybody, I would imagine. It's an art, really.
I do enjoy our conversation already :)
I kneel too easily. In bed and out. those days are over.
But I do know the blow job trance, lucky me.
😆
Oh. Same here. About bowing down to bullshit.
Over that now.
Good sexy times with gentle, smart men?
Over it now...
I hope not!
We still got time 😎