RE: Why No One Reads What You Write: A Masterclass In Communication

[ryzeonline]

Special Mentions:

I tried to tag all these people in the post, but since both parts were over ~60,000 characters each... I have to do it here:

So here's to these superstar Hivers! I’m going to tag great writers and communicators I know... not because I think they need to read this, but because I believe they care about improving content and writing across the board, and because they have the power to share and get this out to people: @nonameslefttouse , @traciyork , @drbenzz , @ashleykalila , @riverflows , @minismallholding , @streetwize , @barge , @stormcharmer , @keco , @dandays , @meesterboom , @pitboy , @nevies , @regenerette , @starstrings01 , @josie2214 , @thoughts-in-time , @mattclarke , @crosheille , @geekgirl , @acidyo , @intothewild , and @cynshineonline , whew! Thank you all in advance. You rock.

I really think content like this could bring people to Hive if it gets shared on Twitter, Reddit, FB, etc. What do you all think?

Comments

[barge]

Thanks for inviting my thoughts on this and for including me in an illustrious group of folk :)

Hmmm, well, I've taken my time to give attention to these posts – 👏👏 for quality and excellence once again – and no doubt Emma might've had the thought that the title might be applicable here too, at least with regard to barge lol.

Short answer to your question: yes I defo think content like this is attractive and informative to the person willing to make some effort. It might not attract those who like to have other folk wipe their bottoms, but I do think that anyone who engages will naturally be drawn further in by the rather gentle pushing of boundaries via the 3rd person of Emma, Harry etc -a very skilfully employed tool - it seems to me - to avoid anything coming across as a 'personal attack' on the sensitive and challenged reader :D.

“Not even me, though I do try very, very hard to manage it.”

For sure you do J – acknowledgement and respect:)

”you’ll have to let go of lashing out, over-biased assessment, lying to yourself, shirking responsibility, blaming others, deciding during emotionality, creating knee-jerk rules, playing the victim, and more. That stuff will come through in your writing.”

☝️ exacto.

“Well, you have communicated to me that you know it all, you don’t do any of the normal bad habits the rest of us humans do, and there’s no point in me volunteering my time and energy to teach someone who’s already nailed it. You clearly have this stuff handled, and in fact, I should probably be learning from you. So I’m going to head out, good luck with your future posts!”

😂🤣 beautiful example of non-violent boundary setting and adherence 👏👏

But we’ll get back to that.

....get back to FE theory? LOL, that'll cause Overton to sit up and take notice.

Haha at 'Marco-Polo' swimming game - takes me back!

[ryzeonline]

My pleasure, and I appreciate you taking the time to read it and respond with proper care & attention. And all good, Emma has faith in @barge , lol.

I'm glad you feel my content is worth the reading time and gently nudges people's boundaries. :)

And thanks for acknowledging the energy I put in to being straight-forward and authentic in my communication.

Same for emphasizing how important it is to let go of lashing out, over-bias, denial, shirking, blame, emotional decisions, knee-jerk rules, victimhood, and more.

beautiful example of non-violent boundary setting and adherence

Thank you, and huge props to you for noticing it. I didn't specifically call out that that 'healthy boundary-setting' is what as happening, but you picked up on it brilliantly. (And glad you liked the Marco-Polo illustration.) :D

...get back to FE theory? LOL, that'll cause Overton to sit up and take notice.

Hahaha omg, it totally would. 🤣 (The line referred to getting back to headline-boundaries, just in case anyone's reading this and doesn't get the joke.) Anyway, I appreciate you, and your comment is another example of your excellent communication. #TogetherWeRyze !

[regenerette]

Great!
I'm all in for advocacy and sharing info like this article.

Congrats on a job excellently done, @ryzeonline. I'll be spreading it to the world now!

[ryzeonline]

Thanks so much, superstar. I truly appreciate you and I'm confident this will benefit many you share with. 👏🙏

[streetwize]

I will have a look shortly bro just with kids :)

[ryzeonline]

All good man, sending you and the kids lots of good vibes! 🙏

[streetwize]

Same to you and @cynshineonline

[ryzeonline]

😁🙏

[streetwize]

Awesome post yet again @ryzeonline I will be reading this a lot before I post

[ryzeonline]

Thank you, glad you liked it, may it elevate your posts! 🙏

[cynshineonline]

❤️

[cynshineonline]

Agreed! I already shared it on Facebook and I intend to share it on my LinkedIn, Reddit Twitter, and IG. ❤️

[ryzeonline]

Hugely appreciated, by me, and all the people it may help in the future. 🙏

[crosheille]

Thanks for alerting me. I'll give this a read tonight when the kiddos are in bed and I have minimum interruptions. 😄

Oh and I've also added you to my Gina notifications so I won't miss any of your awesome work!! Woot Woot! 😃🤩

[ryzeonline]

My pleasure! Thank you for being such a great writer & communicator. Such a blessing for the world. Sending good vibes to you and the kiddos, and I appreciate you giving the piece 'uninterrupted time.' :)

(My Hive-newbishness may be showing, but I have no idea what 'Gina notifications' are, lol, but they sound helpful, so ty.) 🙏

[crosheille]

Thank you for being such a great writer & communicator.

Awww shucks thanks so much! I can say the same for you ;)

For sure. I’ll grab me a cup of hot chocolate and get down to business lol! I love having some type of hot drink or tea when I have my quiet time. It soothes my mind and puts me into relax mode haha! Parent goals. 😎🤣

Lol it’s totally cool. Gina is a bot on discord that gives us notifications of messages, wallet transactions, follows etc. I’m not sure if you’re on discord but you can set this up if you join the Minnow-Power server. I love it because you can set it up to receive notice when a certain user posts, when a certain tag or name is mentioned and of course when your own name is mentioned. I’ll stop here unless you’re interested and have more questions. No point in talking your ear off if you’re not. 😅

[ryzeonline]

(grin) I whole-heartedly agree. Whether I'm creating or consuming, I generally love having a warm, soothing drink nearby. Happiness in small moments. :)

Thanks for this! Interestingly, @brittandjosie invited me to a discord and helped me setup Gina around the same time you left this comment... I still don't consider myself much of a discord-user, but it's a step towards it, eh? :) I searched the Minnow-Power server but couldn't find. 🙏

[crosheille]

Yes yes!! Those small moments can be so joyful! 🤩

Oh cool! I’m not surprised, @brittandjosie is always on top of helping out folks. 😉

I wasn’t a discord user at all until I met this platform. Now I can’t imagine not being on there. 😁

Here’s the direct link to join there. https://discord.gg/67czqMaJ

Once there, go to the the bot-commands channel and enter exactly this

..set

You will be sent a DM to set up your notifications ;)

Holler if you have any questions ~

[brittandjosie]

Did I just see that you had not yet installed Gina, and did that just a few hours back? Well dear your life just became easier

And yes me and the termknal have been helping out since years always there helping the new arrivals and succesfull.
Paying it forward

[ryzeonline]

I'm loving Gina so far, thanks so much @crosheille & @brittandjosie <3

[crosheille]

Hahaha oh no, I've been having Gina for some years now. I was saying when I first heard of discord I didn't think it was for me but now I can't imagine not being on there. Gina and I go way back and I truly appreciate her! 😁

That’s great that you’ve been paying it forward and helping out newcomers. 🤓

[ryzeonline]

Totally agreed! And I may end up going a similar route. Thanks for the invite, see you there, woo! 😁

[riverflows]

I'm absolutely flattered that I'm part of this list. Sharing in my community, and on my blog, now. Thanks for counting me as a superstar Hiver, especially on a day I'm feeling so small. :)

I was just reading this and feeling like a shit writer, so your little tag has made me feel a bit better. However, I'm yet to earn anywhere near what you just did, or have any kind of mass interest in my little corner of HIVE, lol! Thanks for recognising my contributions, though. Appreciated.

[ryzeonline]

My pleasure, you write well, communicate with kindness, and it stands out, at least to me :D You rock!

I wrote a (brief) post on how good writers can get more attention/earnings that may help you or give you a boost, if you're interested: https://peakd.com/hive-161155/@ryzeonline/want-upvotes-be-a-hooker

Either way, I appreciate you and see great things in your future, #keepryzing ! 🙏