It's takes perseverance to bear the pains of life. Be persevere, don't let fear which means force experience appearing real push you to cry.
Am writing this as a piece of advice to those reading this poem because someone might have gone through any of this.
You are right.. It's all about being strong. Life will throw a lot at us including taking our loved ones from us but we shouldn't let that make us lose focus in life. Everything happens for a reason.
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