I am noticing more and more that people want effort put into them, they want opportunity, but aren't necessarily willing to put effort into themselves. At some point, the effort should go to those who not just want it, but also will value it enough to add to it
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True. The number of times I meet someone half way and just stand there alone can get discouraging. I just appreciate having people disqualify themselves early so I don't have to feel bad not pouring any care on them in the future. Ain't nobody got time for that!
there is likely a pareto principle in play, where we spend 80 percent of our time, trying to satisfy 20 percent of the people, even if they aren't the ones we should be putting our energy into.