If you’ve ever been victim to a malicious telemarketer or overpriced services, you have probably been aware that asking for money is the ultimate act of desperation. However, it’s not always easy to know what to do when you want to ask for cash but don’t want to make a scene in public. Probably you are with your friends at that particular moment and you just need some few cash. You don't really know how to go about it in order not to make the public notice or probably the other friends notice, it can really be a difficult scenario. I have been in that shoe several time and I can relate. At that instances, you begin to act awkward and funny to your friends just for them to detect the sign you are passing across.
One thing I have really noticed in our society is many people are quite shy and don’t like to ask for money. But the fact is, sometimes you just need to reach out and ask for help. You might not be able to afford to buy a new dress or a new car right now, but that’s okay! There are still plenty of funny ways people react when they want to ask for money. Those funny ways mighty just be avenue to reduce the attention that might be on them for doing so
People Have Their Reasons For Not Being Able To Ask For Money
People will often say that they don’t have the money or the time to ask for money, but that’s not true! Everyone has the right to ask for help, and it’s not the person’s fault if they don’t. Sometimes people just don’t know how to start the conversation. But you don’t have to be shy there are plenty of ways to ask for help. At times some reasons why people don’t ask for money is because they don’t need it. This might sound awkward but that's just truth. We all think we need money to buy stuff, but the truth is that we don’t need to wear that expensive dress or have that new car.
The actual truth is we just want to be able to pay our bills! It’s embarrassing. Some people are afraid of being thought of a “selfish” person, so they won’t ask for help. But you shouldn’t be afraid to ask for help, and you definitely shouldn’t be ashamed to ask for money! I understand people or the society rather might take you as a beggar but well that does not define who you really are. You don’t know how to ask. Some people just don’t know how to start a conversation with someone on the phone, or in-person, or via email. You don’t have to be a fancy call center or know-it-all internet person to start a conversation with. You just have to have a few basic words.
People Try To Be Funny When They Want Money
People often try to be funny when they’re peaking for a request for money. Some people are just trying to be charming (and some are actually shy), but others are genuinely trying to be funny. Some people try to be funny by making a face or by mimicking the other person’s language. But in all cases, don’t be afraid to say no! If you want to, say you don’t want to—and then walk away. It’s better to say yes a few times and then walk away than to say yes and then take it back!
A guy who always asks for money might be hard to be around, but he’s just not feeling it. Sometimes men are just naturally more serious than women, and they need to take time for themselves. It’s not fair to ask them to take care of you when they might not be able to. There are a lot of ways to get help, and then there are ways to ask for help that are really scary. Sometimes you just have to approach the situation from a place of strength. If someone is obviously upset, you can just walk away from the situation instead of being afraid to ask for help. Some people might get sad or frustrated when they feel like you’re walking away, but it probably means that you’re doing something right. And if you can, give the person some space so they can take care of themselves you don’t need to be a burden!
People who ask for money usually want it for a good reason. They might need money to help with their bills, or they might need money to pay for a vacation they want to take, or they might need money for something they’ve been dreaming about. Whatever the reason, people who ask for money usually have a point and they usually have a plan. Most people have a pretty good idea about how much money they need, and they usually have a plan for how to get it. If you don’t have a plan, you’re probably going to end up asking for way more than you need.
Things can change quickly in this world, and some things might not be yours to keep. You might have a really great relationship with your parents, or you might have inherited money that you need to start paying off bills. Some people are really afraid of asking for money, they might think that they are not good enough, or that they don’t deserve it, or that they will be too busy/ill/whatever to take it. Or maybe they just don’t know how to start the conversation. There were some people in a city who would park their car near a public park and then ask for money. When the park was closed, they would park the car in the field and then walk around looking for people to ask for money from. They would then walk back to their cars and leave without looking back! Not only was this really mean, but it also showed no respect for the park they even went into the field without looking where trees and other vegetation grew. There are instances whereby I have been stopped on the street by some random strangers asking for money. Even though I find it awkward, the truth is it is really quite funny. Most of the time, their facial expression always look funny to me. This really got me most of the time which always make me to give some of them
Sometimes people just don’t feel like asking for money yet, or they might not know how. They might just not have the money right now or they might have just forgotten about asking for money. If you need money but don’t know when you should ask, just be patient. Wait until you are in a place where you feel comfortable asking for money. When someone asks you for money, you don’t have to give it to them. You can say “no, thank you” or “that’s okay, I understand” or “I don’t have that kind of money.” You don’t have to give money to someone who just wants to ask you for money. You can say that you don’
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It is necessary one need to learn to help people when they are in need
Soo funny man I love to see your post. So please keep it up..
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You're making clear point.
This is so me because i dont always know how to ask for money.
I have a friend who can make tou laugh for about an hour before asking you for money so when ever he comes around and starts making me laugh, i just ask him how much do you want this time😂😂😂💔
😃😃 I can quite relate the shoe you are in
This is amazing post I really like it
My friends usually ask me for money first so I think that they're broke and I fine ask them