Everyone want the best especially in everything, marrying a rich man is a good idea having someone who will spoil you with money and luxurious lifestyle... who wouldn't want that? To me Is a dream come true but one shouldn't emphasize on riches alone, marrying a rich man doesn't mean everything is perfect sometimes things can still go wrong...this days every lady want to marry a rich dude especially if he stays in America is like honey in the month, most ladies want already made man nobody want to build from the scratch... is all about money money money! What about good morals, a man who will value, love, care and respect you. everything doesn't have to do with riches... money is good but one shouldn't emphasize on that before getting married that a man is rich doesn't mean is a good man I'm not saying there are not good men who are rich. some ladies don't even mind as far as you are rich it doesn't matter just like my friend Jane.
Jane is a beautiful lady fair hairy skin we been friends for a long time she's nice a very good cook and so hard working but she vow never to marry a poor man she's so keen to marry a rich man, she give more attention to rich men than the poor it is so obvious she is desperate. I advice her on different occasions not to concentrate more on riches but more in finding a good man both of you can work hard together to make that money afterwards she refused to listen Jane vowed never to be like her mom who married a poor man.
Fortunately for her, Jane met a wealthy business bachelor who does business in abroad he do come home once in a while to see his family, she became friends with him then into relationship and fortunately for her she got engaged to him. Jane was super happy that her so desire and dream is about to come to pass, Jane became so full of herself that she brags to her friends and to whoever that care to listen how wealthy her man is and how fabulous her wedding will be, she told many after her wedding with her fiance she is going overseas with him, the interesting part of it is that she mocks her friend who married a man one week after they met each other, Jane said her friend married a stranger just because he stays overseas Jane ridicule her for been desperate that her husband is going to leave her alone to stay with his family at home while he stays overseas to enjoy himself with another woman but Jane words failed her when her friend's husband took her with him to Germany bought her a car while Jane pleaded with thesame friend she mocked to make a way for her to come overseas.
Fastward to where Jane's fiance came to introduce himself to her family by declaring his intentions of his desire to marry Jane my friend everyone was happy finally she is getting married after rejecting so many suitors and she is not getting any younger at thirty eight all her younger ones are married even two of her niece are married too.
Jane do visit her fiance's family helping them out with some household chores and also spending time with her fiance with the intension they will become officially together soon but too bad the man never married her, the surprising part of it is that he change his mind without saying a word. Jane felt so embarrassed and dejected among family and friends, is six years already since the man left everyone thought with what happened she would have learnt her lesson to stop yearning for rich men but too bad she never stop her dream desire to marry a rich man till date Jane is still not married she's still so keen to marry a rich man and void to advices from her family and friends to change her perspective about the kind of man to marry.
There is more to a beautiful marriage than focusing on riches alone in order to get married.
Jane deserve a hand of applause, she's strong, for keeping her dream's alive up till today, but I feel sorry for her, going after riches in a marriage is a big mistakes, anyone who might had that in mind, might live to regret.
Marriage should be built on love, understanding, trust and support and as times goes on, other's things would follow.
Tell Jane she can make the money herself and with a man she loves.
Is quite unfortunate she refuse to give up on this weird dream, even though I should call her now to talk some sense into her it will cause more problem I'm just not ready for more fight she never listen to anyone regarding a life partner... moreover is her wait not mine, I still pray her dream of man come to pass. Thanks for your support and time I appreciate 🙏
You are welcome friend
The problem is really not about making choices,
The only issue is when one decides not to take responsibility for their choices too when problem starts,
An uncle of mine will always say most women will always self destruct before learning their lessons.
I guess he is right most of us learn through experience but is quite unfortunate Jane refuse to learn from her mistake...I appreciate your input thank you
Hi I just posted something similar ha,ha,ha,ha. Truly those who have no money in some cases nobody wants them, I have some friends who have a club to accept these men without means in their pocket. I have laughed a lot and I ask you not to romanticize poverty and well love with hunger does not last, but you can put up with it a little ha,ha,ha,ha @ucloveth
I understand that when people put riches in front before getting married most of them end up seeing the opposite. Even when you don't have much you can still work hard to earn more, that one don't have now doesn't mean he won't have tomorrow life itself is dynamic in nature. Thanks for stopping by @lisfabian