I want to have a positive influence here,
I have lived many years, and have come to the same decision about my life. Policing is necessary. People need to be corrected when they behave in ways that hurt the community. (I think that should be the standard--does the behavior hurt the community). But it's just not the way I want to spend my days on earth. It simply doesn't feel good. Surely we need some sort of corrective to bad behavior, and it's good that there are people willing to do that hard work. Just not me. I get it. Anyway, with a name like Curangel, how can you carry a cudgel 😇?