Saludos padres de @motherhood. Quiero compartir con ustedes mis inicios en ésta comunidad. Bienvenidos a éste primer capítulo de mi vida, y experiencia como madre. Quisiera compartirles hoy esta información ya que hoy en día habemos padres que por darle lo mejor a nuestros hijos, nos dedicamos de lleno al trabajo y nos olvidamos de que esas personitas nos esperan en casa, unos esperando que les pregunte como estuvo su día en el colegio y los más pequeños esperando los abrazos y el cariño de sus padres.
Yo soy mami de un niño de 2 años. Soy madre soltera, trabajo 10 horas diarias, 6 días de la semana. Es algo agotador, tanto física, como mental y hasta emocionalmente. Lo hago con mucho esfuerzo, uso una bicicleta para transportarme y llego súper cansada porque es un poco lejos. Sin embargo, llego con el mejor de los ánimos y siempre contando las horas para llegar a casa y ver a mi poyuelo, llenarlo de besos, jugar y bailar y por ultimo acurrucarme con él hasta dormirnos.
Greetings @motherhood parents. I want to share with you my beginnings in this community. Welcome to this first chapter of my life and experience as a mother. I would like to share this information with you today because nowadays there are parents who, in order to give the best to our children, we dedicate ourselves fully to work and we forget that those little people are waiting for us at home, some waiting for me to ask them how was their day at school and the little ones waiting for hugs and affection from their parents.
I am a mommy of a 2 year old boy. I am a single mother, I work 10 hours a day, 6 days a week. It is exhausting, physically, mentally and even emotionally. I do it with a lot of effort, I use a bicycle for transportation and I get there super tired because it's a bit far. However, I arrive with the best of spirits and always counting the hours to get home and see my poyuelo, fill him with kisses, play and dance and finally cuddle with him until we fall asleep.
Básicamente, paso todo el día trabajando, no comparto mucho con mi hijo, pero no me considero de esos padres que descuidan a sus hijos por el trabajo, siempre debe haber un balance, ellos son primero.
Yo en mi día de descanso, desde que amanece estoy con mi niño, le hago su cereal, salimos a comprar juntos y por la tarde lo llevo de paseo y lo hago sentir lo más tranquilo y lo más feliz posible, porque eso es lo que ellos necesitan, nuestro apoyo y que estemos allí para ellos cuando nos necesiten y que los animemos, que les digamos qué hicieron bien y los premiemos con pequeños detalles, a veces con un abrazo les basta porque ellos solo quieren nuestro cariño.
Aquellos padres que no le dedican tiempo a sus hijos, infortunadamente están criando niños egoístas, que son fríos, no comparten con otros niños porque se la pasan encerrados, su carácter es fuerte, se vuelven rebeldes con el tiempo. Y es allí cuando los padres se alertan, y se dan cuenta de lo que han hecho.
Basically, I spend all day working, I don't share much with my son, but I don't consider myself one of those parents who neglect their children for work, there must always be a balance, they come first.
On my day off, as soon as the sun rises I am with my child, I make him his cereal, we go shopping together and in the afternoon I take him for a walk and make him feel as calm and as happy as possible, because that is what they need, our support and that we are there for them when they need us and that we encourage them, tell them what they did well and reward them with small details, sometimes a hug is enough for them because they just want our affection.
Those parents who do not dedicate time to their children, unfortunately are raising selfish children, who are cold, do not share with other children because they spend their time locked up, their character is strong, they become rebellious over time. And that is when parents become alert, and realize what they have done.
Para evitar esos comportamientos debemos aplicar lo siguiente:
1. Organizar nuestro tiempo. Debemos hacer un balance entre el trabajo y el pasar tiempo con nuestros hijos, ya que ellos son los principales afectados por la ausencia de los padres.
2. Mantener un vínculo afectivo. Al llegar del trabajo, siempre es bueno preguntarles qué tal estuvo su día, que nos muestren sus tareas y brindarles la mayor atención para crear un vínculo de confianza.
3. Organizar actividades con tu hijo. Llévalo al parque, consientelo con su helado favorito, que vea que te preocupas por su bienestar y que disfrute de tu compañía.
4. El amor. Siempre debemos decirles lo mucho que los amamos y lo dichosos que somos de tenerlos.
Mi hijo y yo tenemos un vínculo fuerte, el es mi compañero de vida, siempre está conmigo, dándome fuerzas para seguir adelante y motivandome a ser mejor cada día. Y siempre le doy gracias por escogerme como su mamá, porque mi vida ha girado tan bonito desde que lo tengo a mi lado.
Pues, con esto finalizo. Espero les haya gustado mi aporte, y apliquemos algunos de los consejos antes pautados para cosechar hijos amados y queridos.
To avoid these behaviors we must apply the following:
1. Organize our time. We must make a balance between work and spending time with our children, since they are the main ones affected by the absence of parents.
2. Maintain an affectionate bond. When we get home from work, it is always good to ask them how their day was, ask them to show us their homework and give them the utmost attention to create a bond of trust.
3. Organize activities with your child. Take them to the park, treat them to their favorite ice cream, let them see that you care about their well-being and that they enjoy your company.
4. Love. We should always tell them how much we love them and how happy we are to have them.
My son and I have a strong bond, he is my life partner, he is always with me, giving me strength to keep going and motivating me to be better every day. And I always thank him for choosing me as his mom, because my life has turned so beautifully since I have him by my side.
Well, with this I end. I hope you liked my contribution, and let's apply some of the above tips to harvest loved and cherished children.
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