Fatherhood: Commending My Husband

in Motherhood2 years ago

"A father has to be a provider, a teacher, a role model, but most importantly, a distant authority figure who can never be pleased. Otherwise, how will children ever understand the concept of God? "-Stephen Colbert

Hello, amazing people in this community. How are you? Well, I hope you are all fine and doing good. This is my first time posting a blog in this community. For today's blog, I would like to feature my husband who does the role of a mother since I gave birth to my first child. Should I say I'm proud of him for being so caring and loving to our three lovely daughters?

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Fatherhood comes when you have a child to take care of. Or when you marry a woman with a child or had adopted a child. Fatherhood or parenthood is a term that can be interchanged. When you became a father you are a parent too. Parenting is not only the concern of a mother. But it is the concern of both husband and wife or both a man of woman. Taking care of a child starts from birth or from the time a child is under your custody. It is your responsibility until they had their own family. It won't stop. Much more we Filipinos are noted for having a culture of strong family ties.

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We got married last July 27, 2007. I gave birth to our first child on January 30, 2008. When we had our first child I noticed that my husband is very particular in caring for our child. He changes the diaper, mixes milk, takes care of it during nighttime, and does everything that some men can not do. He takes care of our children until this time when they are already young ladies and had their schooling in a different school. It was my husband who send my three kids to school and pick them up. My kids are the reason why he did not accept his promotion to area manager. He refuses the offer from the company. He is very responsible when it comes to his family. And with that aspect, I'm proud of him.

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Despite being responsible and caring, he has also an attitude that I can say to myself, God will not give us a perfect person. Why? He is a nagger. He has a strong loud voice when he got angry. He doesn't care if he hurts me already. Well as a wife who loved our children, I just widen my patience for my family. I just understand him because if he has a negative attitude he has a positive one too. So to preserve our marriage for our kids, I should be calm and don't mind everything.

Thanks all for today's article. I hope you learned from this article.

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You're husband indeed a good father and a partner to you. So bless of you for having him. God bless and take care.

WOW! What a great write up and very educative one indeed. I believe that no women or men is perfect when it's comes to marriage but we just have to manage ourselves. It's great to know that you have a husband and the fact that you really understand each other is the reason why your love is going to last forever. Keep being the kind of women you're. A patience wife and amazing mother. Thanks for sharing this amazing post and have a wonderful day.
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Thank you @twicejoy for your positive comments.I am just honest.

You're welcome ma'am. You really have a wonderful family

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Seems like your children are all daddy's girls! Its nice to have a father who supports and cares for his girls when they are growing up. A role model they can look up to. That's even more amazing that he declined the promotion just to be at the side of his children. You reminded me when my dad went away to far off places just to work and there were long periods where I grow up and it was just mom and my siblings but I could remember the tremendous joy we felt when he finally comes home. Seems like your kids are blessed to have a father like him.

You are right @indayclara they are all papas girl.

Yes ma'am @dehai there is no such as a perfect husband but there is a responsible one. Congrats to you you got that kind of husband and a loving father to your children. 😍

True @mommyjane.At least his we
know how to manage his imperfections .hehehe

Yeah that's it @dehai . Para malinawn ang kinaabuhi.☺️😁

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Thank you @pizzabot and @twicejoy.This one touch my heart.

Que bonito escribes tu admiración 👏👏👏👏🎉.

A veces, borramos el rol del padre en la educación y crianza de los niños y son tan importantes como la madre.

Que bendición encontrar un buen hombre, esposo y padre 👏🎉.

Saludos 🤗🎉🇻🇪.

Si es cierto, muchas gracias!

I feel happy when I see such happy family pictures.

Thank you!!

One of a kind hubby, so supportive and responsible. Hope all fathers are like him.

Thats why @naymhapz it doesn't matter even how nagger he is.hehehe

You have an awesome husband and a father to your child ❤️🥰. I can feel the love you have for him ❤️

Thanks @ruffatotmeee for the positive comments!

Yes I learned something from this article. Fathers are Important in every family. You have a caring and loving hubby. Thanks for this information. I really appreciate it.

Wow!!! You are lucky @dehai, you have a responsible and lovable husband. It is so obvious that he loves his family. Indeed you have a beautiful family.. Thank you for sharing this for it gives inspiration to all men and newly build family out there. 😊

La responsabilidad de padre es muy importante en nuestras vidas, tu historia me gusto mucho amiga @dehai

Si, eso es cierto amigo. La responsabilidad de un padre también es muy importante como madre. Gracias, amigo mío, por visitarnos.

Que hermosas líneas! Me encanta la forma de expresarte de tu esposo, eres muy afortunada de contar con su apoyo en la crianza de tus hijos! Dios bendiga a tu familia 🙏 Saludos 😊

Gracias mi amigo. Sí, tengo suerte con él cuando se trata de responsabilidad y ser un proveedor, pero como dije, no somos perfectos y él no es perfecto.