Momento Difícil
Hard moment
Un cordial saludo a los presentes en este espacio de interacción en la plataforma #HIVE. Cada vez encuentro temas muy interesantes que me gustaría abordar cada día, sin embargo intento explorar aquellos que más me identifican y los que me ayudan a expresar mejor mi vida como madre. introduciendo así una historia real a la comunidad. #momlife
A cordial greeting to those present in this space for interaction on the #HIVE platform. Each time I find very interesting topics which I would like to address each day, however I try to explore those that most identify me and those that help me better express my life as a mother. thus introducing a true story to the community. #momlife
Mi hija tiene apenas 2 años y obviamente no puedo sentarme a hablar de estos temas con ella, principalmente porque a su corta edad no lo entenderá. Sé que debo prepararme para eso porque los niños nos sorprenden con su inteligencia en todo momento.
My daughter is barely 2 and obviously I can't sit down talking about these issues with her, primarily because at her young age she won't understand. I know that I must prepare for that because children surprise us with their intelligence every time.
Es algo que no tengo ni la remota idea de cómo abordarlo con ella sin que mi corazón se achique, tener una familia implica: mamá + papá = hijos. Pero cuando esa fórmula desaparece, Pero cuando esa fórmula desaparece, no es fácil suponer que un miembro ya no estará presente como una vez lo soñamos.
It is something that I do not have the remote idea of how to approach it with her without my heart getting small, having a family implies: mom + dad = children. But when that formula disappears, But when that formula disappears, it is not easy to assume that a member will no longer be present as we once dreamed it.
Muchas veces asumimos que si papá no está aquí, no es necesario, pero la realidad puede ser otra, el orgullo siempre estará en contra del corazón. Sin embargo, sonreírle a la vida con mi hija ha sido un gran desafío del que tuve que caer y levantarme.
Many times we assume that if dad is not here, it is not necessary, but the reality may be another, pride will always be against the heart. However, smiling at life with my daughter has been a great challenge which I had to fall and get up
Si hoy tuviera que darle una explicación a mi hija, la resumiría así:
If today I had to give an explanation to my daughter, I would summarize it like this:
Hija, tu papá y yo cuando estábamos juntos hubo momentos en que no nos entendíamos y decidimos que estar separados era la mejor opción, pero él siempre será tu papá y yo seré tu mamá, te hice con amor , Te di a luz con dolor y te crié con sacrificio. No fue fácil pero intento cada día darlo todo por ti, independientemente de las batallas en las que me haya caído o tenga que caer, siempre serás mi motivación. Disculpe si nuestra mejor elección no le favoreció, pero por el momento fue básicamente lo mejor para nosotros tres ...
Daughter, your dad and I when we were together there were times when we did not understand each other and we decided that being apart was the best choice, but he will always be your dad and I will be your mom, I made you with love, I gave birth to you with pain and I raised you with sacrifice. It was not easy but I try every day to give my all for you, regardless of the battles in which I have fallen or have to fall, you will always be my motivation. Sorry if our best choice did not favor you, but for the moment it was basically the best for the three of us ...
Gracias por tu atención y bienvenido si quieres dejarme algún consejo al respecto.
Thank you for your attention and welcome if you want to leave me some advice about it.
Always be honest, and make it about love. I had to do the same to my kid and he turned out just fine. Kids appreciate honesty.
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