*To begin with, attention and perseverance are directly related to the maturity of the nervous system and brain...
so when a child has difficulties with this, and nothing helps, I would first contact a neurologist to make sure that there are no problems.
Here, first of all, we think about the well - being of the child, start treatment and therapy in time to help the child solve the problem.
The neurologist said that everything is fine - then we check whether all the conditions for the development of the brain we create for the child:
- Security🌼
This is the first and basic need. When there are problems in the family, something disturbs the baby, then he will not be able to develop. Remember the "Hit, Run, or Freeze" strategy.
- Secret Support🌼
In the book "The Secret Support" by the psychologist L. Petranovskaya, this is written in detail. If the child has the confidence that he is loved and understood, accepted as he is, then development is faster.
Communication 🌼 It is through conversations with parents that children first learn everything they need to know. When a child speaks-hears his words, rethinks them, analyzes the reaction of adults, it develops the brain.
Free play🌼
*It is useful for the child to be busy with his favorite game, to come up with plots and denouements, to attract everything that is needed to the game. With the support of his parents and without condemnation, he is entitled to his "world of games".
We have fulfilled all the conditions, and when will the result be? Not so soon, the child is not a robot. There is a time for everything.
If you want to develop perseverance faster, then start with these recommendations (for children of all ages):*
- Daily routine🌼
A very important base point. Especially for children who find it difficult to focus their attention.
A) Sleep. At least 8-10 hours. So, you need to go to bed at 21-22.
B) Food. Be sure to have breakfast, lunch, and dinner. More vegetables, fruits, meat, cereals.
C) Walking. It is advisable to spend 2 hours a day in the fresh air.
These points directly determine what mood the child will be in and how long he can be focused.
- Errands around the house🌼
They help you practice perseverance. Only this should not be a punishment, a distraction from studying. It is better, when without reproaches, first through the game, then with the help of a conversation, to entrust the child with what he is more or less interested in. Children, as a rule, like to take out the garbage, put books on the shelves, vacuum, wash dishes.
- Games🌼
Board games, logic games, puzzles. Anything that requires concentration. Play together, start with simple games.
- Emotional education
*# # Teach your child to understand what he feels, talk about it, and react correctly. Then he will realize that he cannot sit in class because he is bored, or when he is angry, and will think about how he can cope with these emotions.
- Physical activity🌼
Children, as well as adults, need the activity of the body for the normal functioning of the brain. *
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