Hello Hivers! Sending you love and hugs from the Philippines!
I became a mom to a wonderful God-given daughter when I was 26 years old. Back then, I was a paranoid and a worrier mom because obviously as a first-time mom, I didn't know what to do. I'm sure many first-time moms can relate.
Funny, but even a simple cold would make me panic causing me to go to the pediatrician right away. See? Silly right? Yeah, I was like that. 😅
I was always asking other moms how to do things and gladly, I got the sufficient support I needed from my mother and my friends as well. They are the best! They have guided me through, especially my mom. She stood by me and never left me from the day I gave birth till now.
Thanks, mom! I know you can't read this but I will take this opportunity to tell all Hivers how grateful I am for having you. You are extraordinary!
With the guidance of the Almighty Father and the strong support system around me, I was able to get through that phase of motherhood. I am gradually learning; taking one step at a time. Soon enough, from the tiny peanut inside my womb; she has grown into a bubbly kid by God's grace.
In fact, she just celebrated her 7th birthday last October 31, 2022. Let me share with you a glimpse of what happened on that important day.
(October 31, 2022)
On the morning of her birthday, my daughter woke up so early. I bet she was so excited. Upon seeing her at the edge of the bed, sitting down, I slowly got out of bed and went to her. I greeted her with a happy birthday with a kiss on the lips. She was so delighted with the gesture. Her father did the same thing, and she was all the more became joyous. She gladly replied to us with a big smile while uttering the word "Thank you, mama and papa".
I believe she was extra happy because her father was around. She is used to celebrating her birthday without her papa because her father is an oversea Filipino worker. Fortunately, this time around, my husband has not returned to work yet, so he was able to celebrate with us. This is a very rare and significant moment for our small family.
We thank the Lord that we could celebrate our daughter's birthday this year, together. We do not intend to hold a big celebration because we do not have extra money for that. We only intend to prepare a little intimate dinner with family. Thankfully, our daughter is just as content as we are, thanks be to the Lord! Since then, she has not given any demands when it comes to celebrating her birthday. In fact, she would just gladly appreciate whatever it is that we can afford and provide. With that, we are beyond grateful.
I and my husband woke up early to buy everything we needed. There were many people in the market during that time because the celebration of "All Saints and All Souls Day" was fast approaching.
Yeah, the market was a bit congested, but we never mind it at all because, at the back of our minds, we were thinking about the happiness we could give our daughter once she sees that we are celebrating the precious moment she was born.
In this picture, she can be seen tremendously happy with her cousins as her guests. These cuties are her best friends too. They love to play and do fun things together. I personally admire the bond they share. Growing up, I was silently jealous when I saw kids who had a close relationship with their cousins because honestly, I don't experience having one. Sad, but that's true. That is why I always instill the importance of good family ties in my daughter as early as now.
These are the humble gifts she received on her birthday. The tumbler was given by her auntie Mary, the cake was given by her cousins Jewel and Jade; and of course, the toys which are shaped like eggs were given from us, her parents.
These gifts were not expensive but the joy that radiated to her face when she received them was so remarkable. I know that this is one of the moments that she will hold dear to her mind and heart forever. Thanks to the people who have generously shown love to my daughter. You are amazing!
We shared a simple dinner with the family. My mom and I worked together in the kitchen. From buying everything that was needed to cooking each recipe was tiring; yet, the feeling of happiness I would feel seeing that my family enjoyed the food is fulfilling. It is so touching to the heart when they will say, " thanks for the food".
We cooked Filipino staple dishes such as pancit, caldereta, lumpia, fried chicken and Filipino sweet style spaghetti. My daughter's favorite is pancit. She immediately ate when it was cooked. In fact, she had eaten two rounds of pancit. Such a favorite! And oh! We had mango tapioca and cake as dessert. Mouthwatering right? Soon, when any of you would visit the Philippines, try to have these on your list of foods to try. Promise, you won't regret it!
The dinner was so filling; we shared chitchats and pleasantries over the table. Adults and kids enjoyed the food being served and honestly everyone had a great time. I know my daughter was pleased with everything that was happening during the celebration of her birthday. I could literally see the glow of happiness on her face. And as a mom, my heart is touched knowing that she was happy at the moment. It was an intimate dinner with family, but it was the BEST!
Raising a child is tough. It takes a lot of courage and patience to carefully guide a child in becoming a responsible adult in the not-so-distant future. Also, I believe that there is a necessity to continuously grow and become a better version of myself; just so, I could impact the same desire in my child. The desire to be a role model worthy of emulation.
I have learned that teaching a baby to walk and talk is nothing compared to instilling values and character in them. These could be their ultimate weapons in facing life challenges, fallouts, and breaks. So, as a mother, I feel that this is a huge task I need to uphold. It is not a walk in the park, I know, yet with God's help I will strive hard; to commit myself to the wonderful world of MOTHERHOOD.
What a beautiful daughter just like mom🥰
Happy birthday to your daughter @itsmetim... I wish her the best, more blessings, and good health.
I strongly agree with you that as parents, we should prioritize teaching our children, good values and good character at home so that if the time comes that they will go out by themselves, we will be at peace that they can get through and overcome the wrath of life in the real world.
Sending big hugs 🤗
Thank you so much for taking time to comment @ciadanmea .
Yeah, I couldn't agree more, we are responsible of inculcating values and good manners to our kids before they explore the world.
Thanks for the kind comment. All the best!
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Hello there @itsmetim, special moments with our child is a precious one. The best thing we can give is our time to them. God bless 🥰
Hello @jobeliever! Yeah that's right because time wasted cannot be undone.Thanks for dropping a comment. It means a lot!
Beautiful mommy inside and out @itsmetim . May she will grow to be God-fearing and loving daughter always.
Thanks for your kind words @naymhapz. It means a lot! God bless you and see you around.
As a first-time Mom to my 1-year-old, I also am learning in this post. 😊
Happiest birthday to your daughter @itsmetim 😍 I couldn't imagine how happy she is celebrating her birthday with a complete family.😍
Wow, happy to knos that you're a mom too. I'm sure you are an amazing mom @amoreyl. Yeah, she was extremely happy during the celebration. In fact, she couldn't forget the experience she had.
Thanks for dropping by. See you around
You are right @callmesmile, she was extremely happy that we got to celebrate together. Honestly, we were too.🥰
Thanks for dropping a comment. Your kind words are uplifting. God bless and see you around!
Yes, every mother is worried about her child, even though she is fully grown, she is still worried.
That's right @ahleap, the job of a mother is endless. It is rewarding and challenging too.
Thanks for dropping by! See you around☺
So emotional post.Happy birthday to your lovely daughter.Raising children Is very tough as you mentioned,but they are our the biggest treasure.I am a mother of four daughters and I know how it Is beautiful and hard in the same time.My second daughter Is at the same age as your daughter,actually she will be seven in January.Best wishes again
Indeed, motherhood is beautiful and hard at the same time. I am enjoying its rollercoaster ride as well.😊
I know you are doing a great job of raising four daughters; I couldn't imagine the challenges you faced.
That's really great hearing that they have the same age..they could have been friends if only they could meet🥰
Thanks for dropping by! All the best!
I remember when my child started teething, that was also the start of being much paranoid. Hehehe.
Your daughter is so blessed to have you as her mom. You are indeed a supermom☺️
Happy birthday baby.☺️
So high five to the paranoid moms🤣kidding aside! Anyways, I agree with you @missleray about teething. It is a difficult phase of raising a child too but supermoms as we are, we know we could get through everything with prayers and faith.
Thanks for dropping by @missleray..You are an incredible mom I can say.
Cheers! Hehehe...
You're always welcome @itsmetim.☺️
Even though you have no experience at all but when you are already in that part, you have no choice but to make it through every day. Thus, looking at how your daughter now, you and your husband raised her well. She's growing fast and healthy. !PIZZA
Wow! Thanks for the kind words @dennnmarc.This means a lot to a mom like me. Your kind words are motivating. Thanks for dropping by and see you around!
I'm speechless!
Sometimes I envy people with loving mothers, since grew up with tough love from both of my parents. Good luck on your parenting journey, you're doing great. 💛
Belated happy birthday to your daughter, btw!
Thanks for your kind words @hivehealth. I'm sure your parents had their reasons. I appreciate you dropping by. See you around
Seven years old well celebrated, in the company of her mother, who is always with her; besides, the happiness was complete because her dad was there, sharing with her after so much time away from home due to his work responsibilities. All those little friends barefoot and happy celebrating. The food looked delicious and in great variety, the cake was great. Her dress very nice like her mass. God watch over them and bless them!
Greetings @itsmetim
Siete añitos bien celebrados, en compañía de su madre, que siempre está con ella; además, la felicidad fue completa porque ahí estaba su papá, compartiendo con ella después de tanto tiempo fuera de casa debido a sus responsabilidades de trabajo. Todos esos amiguitos descalzos y felices celebrando. La comida se observa deliciosa y en gran variedad, la torta genial. Su vestido muy bonito como ella misa. Dios les cuide y los bendiga!
Saludos @itsmetim
This is all because God is good and great. We could never have celebrated her birthday without Him. Thanks for seeing the great things in this blog, I appreciate you dropping by. God bless you!
Wow! Congratulations @itsmetim for being the best mom. Indeed , your only daughter is as good as you are and she is so blessed to have you and her daddy. You are a good role model worth emulating. I can relate to you 🙂 our mom is the best mom because they never leave us, the moment we give birth until now. Kudos to our Momma's 💖
OMG, this post reminded me something funny when i had my first child. Is really funny, sometimes i will rush to see the doctor thinking it is a serious matter but he will tell me, go back, he is okay. What a university of no graduation been a mother is.
Glad to know that I'm not alone but I'm pretty sure, you are an incredible mom @ijelady. Thanks for dropping by. God bless!
Thank you so much a great woman, motherhood is an excellent journey.
Have a nice day @itsmetim
As a woman sis raising kids ang pinaka mahirap kasi Kung Anu ang outcome Ng bata Sa magulang ang Sisi ehh. I have 4 kids 3 of them never tried to experience there 7th birthday
That is exactly true @usagigallardo015 . You are a brave mom. Praying for you and the girls.God bless
Thank you so much po ma'am I adore all the teachers because their passion are one of a kind salute to all teachers
I am glad you appreciate us. Your kind words are motivating.🥰