Bridging the connection between parents and children through social media
As kids grow it gets harder to connect as the begin to form their own identity including hobbies, interests and social media plays a large part replacing the wrestling we once did with entertainment.
I know it's been a challenge for many parents throughout this transition and while we do still spend time together there is other ways to connect and maintain the role modelling.
Instead of arguing with my kids about their social media use I encourage activities with them by developing content with them. I also develop my own content for my business which is fun and engaging.
Lately I have been developing more and more recipe videos and this has inspired my oldest to start following the recipes.
Messy Learning
While my kitchen is a complete mess it's great to see my oldest explore her independence and start to find her place in this world. The best part of this is that I didn't give her any prompts she decided to go out on her own and watch one of the videos I've popped up and make the meal.
Social media can be challenge for many parents as we feel replaced. Like all parents, I’ve enjoyed spending time with my kids whether it’s playing games, going on adventures or simply having family meals together.
But as they get older we need to remember their worlds expand beyond the walls of our home. They are drawn to social media interacting with their friends and exploring content that interests them.
Instead of fighting against it, I decided to meet them where they are by having a presence on social media myself which has been a great way to maintain connection.
excitement of growing
Seeing her excitement and curiosity grow as she learns new skills through my content has been incredibly rewarding.
She asks me questions, sends me pictures of her finished dishes and even suggests new recipes to try together.
The digital connection has reinforced our real life bond, giving us a common ground despite her increasing independence and keeps me relevant in her life.
Lessons we can all learn
Instead of viewing social media as something that creates distance. I now see it as a way to stay engaged with my kids. I don’t just post content I interact with theirs, comment on their interests and stay in tune with their digital lives.
It’s a balance of being present without being overbearing, allowing them space to grow while also showing them that I care about what they enjoy and doing it with them.
Cooking videos have become more than just a creative outlet for me which have also been able to have me eaen a few bucks from Meta. they’ve become a bridge.
Whether we’re in the kitchen together or she’s following along from her phone, we’re sharing an experience that strengthens our bond and connection in the modern world.
And in the process, I’m learning that parenting in the digital age isn’t about keeping up with every trend it’s about finding meaningful ways to connect.
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