Mothers are always appreciated for the pain they go through to birth a child and love the child unconditionally. They bear all the pain their children give to them, they want the best for their children and they always want to protect their children from harm. Mothers are love and they deserve more love from their children.
But what do we do with mothers who nag a lot?
To nag means to keep repeating the same thing even after the hearer may have understood what you meant (in an annoying way)
You might be wondering why the question but have you seen a nagging woman before? If yes, you should know how annoying it can be sometimes not to talk of a nagging mother.
I thought of writing this here because of what happened sometime ago at my friend's neighborhood.
The neighbor, a mother of five got home after a long day and she began shouting and complaining so loud about her eldest daughter that the whole neighborhood could hear her. She was shouting at her eldest daughter and complaining about her daughter not finding something to do but laying about.
I am not saying she was wrong in getting mad at her daughter about that but I felt she should have done that quietly inside the house and said it once and for all. She didn't, instead she kept repeating herself for countless time that I can't give count of. Yeah, maybe she was stressed out from her work place but won't the nagging add to her stress? She continued for more than a hour repeating the same words.
I really couldn't imagine what I would do if I were to be her daughter, I would even prefer a spank than those many complaints.
My own advice to the daughter is that she should avoid anything that would make her mum nag too much even if the mum must find ways to complain at any time.
Too much talk can make our parents get old early so we should try not to let our parents complain or nag too much. Do everything to avoid their nagging.
Now to my question, what would you do if you were the daughter to such mother? And as a mother, what would you do to avoid being a nagging mother?
Some children push their parents to the extreme, there is a chance that the said woman has tried using soft voice on the child with no positive response from the child.
However, if the woman derives pleasure in nagging all the time, and I were her daughter I would avoid her as much as I can. When she starts I just leave the house for her or get busy doing something to take my mind off it.
Being in such environment beats my imagination because l'm the type that leaves a room whenever a sort of argument is going on. Having myself to be on the receiving end of such nagging is something l wouldn't want for myself.
Something like this is often going to need the contributory effort of both the child and the mum in order for peace to reign.
A child need to stop doing things that will provoke the mum while the mum needs to seal her lips when the kid takes correction.
Exactly! Both the mum and the child has their roles to play to avoid too much Nagging.
I really don't wish to be the Nagging type and I hope I can make that possible.
Hahhaah... If you try anything close to nagging eeee, l will pour sugar inside your mouth 😂😂
Hahaha why do I feel attacked? But sugar is sweet sha so I shouldn't feel bad but instead find a way to start nagging 😌
thats maybe the most personal comment i saw in steem/hive . thanks :-)
Hah, well to be fair, I think teenagers can be quite frustrating. Maybe the mother had asked her daughter to do certain chores, then came home after a long, hard day of work and found the chores still hadn't be done. Who knows how often this happens in that house?
A mother of five? I can only imagine the amount of stress and frustration! Taking care of kids who's brains haven't fully developed for understanding and compassion yet. I think the mum is allowed some complaining when her kids don't do what is/was asked of them.
Voicing your stress and frustration can be a great help to relieve some of that tension.
Quite True💯
Sometimes kids can make you stress so much especially when they don't comply to do what was ask of them... Nagging mother, she might be fustrated and angry because of some reasons known to her, motherhood can be boring at times and at same time exciting.
Kids that wants their parents to be happy must learn to obey any instructions given to them, at least it would make her mind to be relaxed when it comes to them.
Nice post @merit.ahama ... I love the comment @pfshorts
Thanks ma'am for your contribution and I'm glad you like the post. Let's just hope not to be the Nagging type at all, it's not good for health afterall.
This is true some teenagers can be frustrating. I do not have a child yet but sometimes my aunt children frustrate me and I lose my cool.
as a child or mother. i would do 1st of each month. a starting point for the month. ill start at ... im sorry that i didnt ..... i care for you and trying my best. please stop nogging. i learnd from prev month to ..... and i try my best this month to succeed. if i will do mistakes. tell me and i fix them. i care for you ... and then the mom say her voice in turn. as long as they know they care for each other things will happen