Hola! espero se encuentren muy bien, hace algunos días que no hablo con ustedes, pero estamos en un periodo de readaptación, todos los cambios generan resistencia y para los niños no es diferente, al contrario yo creo que es más difícil afrontar ciertas situaciones, desde Miguel nació, por decisión deje mi trabajo para estar con el en casa, ya ha crecido, es el momento de volver al ámbito laboral, ya les he contado que soy enfermera y eso me permite estar más tiempo en casa sin embargo me ausento por periodos de 24 hrs, quiero contarles cómo hemos afrontado estos cambios.
Hello! I hope you are doing well, it has been a few days since I last talked to you, but we are in a period of readjustment, all changes generate resistance and for children is no different, on the contrary I think it is more difficult to face certain situations, since Miguel was born, by decision I left my job to be with him at home, he has grown, it is time to return to work, I have already told you that I am a nurse and that allows me to spend more time at home but I am absent for periods of 24 hrs, I want to tell you how we have dealt with these changes.
Lo primero que hicimos fue explicarle que yo debía trabajar, por que tenemos algunos proyectos como familia, debemos ganar un dinero extra para poder alcanzarlos, el hizo algunas preguntas como de donde sale el dinero?, cuánto dinero necesitamos?, que vamos hacer con el dinero?, quién se iba a quedar con él?, a medida que la conversación iba avanzando, contestamos todas sus interrogantes, el entendió sin embargo pudimos sentir que no estaba cómodo con la situación, llegó mi primer dia, me fui muy temprano, el se quedo en casa de mi mama, yo estuve en contacto con ella en la medida de lo posible, al final de la tarde mi esposo lo paso buscando y se fueron a casa a dormir ellos dos solos, al dia siguiente sali de mi trabajo, me dirigí a casa y me reencontré con el , en mi mente me hice unas expectativas de que me recibiría con emoción de verme, pero no fue asi solo me saludo y se fue a su cuarto, creo que estaba molesto, sin embargo en el transcurso del dia me dijo que me extrañaba y que se habia divertido con papa y la abuela.
The first thing we did was to explain to him that I had to work, because we have some projects as a family, we must earn some extra money to be able to achieve them, he asked some questions like where does the money come from, how much money do we need, what are we going to do with the money, who is going to keep it, who is going to keep it? as the conversation progressed, we answered all his questions, he understood but we could feel that he was not comfortable with the situation, my first day came, I left very early, he stayed at my mom's house, I was in contact with her as much as possible, at the end of the afternoon my husband went looking for him and they went home to sleep by themselves, The next day I left work, I went home and I met him again, in my mind I had some expectations that he would receive me with excitement to see me, but it was not like that, he just greeted me and went to his room, I think he was upset, however in the course of the day he told me that he missed me and that he had fun with dad and grandma.
Mis guardias por lo general solo son una vez por semana, los días que no asisto trato de pasar momentos de calidad con el, compartir alguna comida deliciosa, jugar, hacer manualidades, ver alguna película juntos, tratando de que el sienta que compartimos tiempo de calidad, siempre el día previo a mi trabajo le explico que voy a trabajar con quien se va a quedar, incluso que le voy a dejar de comer, le mando notas de voz para que vea que siempre pienso en el. En ocasiones le dejo notitas para que se las lean.
My shifts are usually only once a week, the days I do not attend I try to spend quality time with him, share some delicious food, play, make crafts, watch a movie together, trying to make him feel that we share quality time, always the day before my work I explain him that I will work with who will stay, even that I will let him eat, I send voice notes so he sees that I always think of him. Sometimes I leave little notes for him to read.
Creo que el proceso a sido difícil para los dos, a mi se me parte el corazón cuando me voy y hace esas caritas de tristeza, sin embargo después que se tranquiliza, pasa un buen dia con su abuela o su papá, en ocasiones me dice que por que debo trabajar tanto que ya mi cartera va explotar de tanto dinero, (quisiera yo que eso fuera cierto), pero como todo es adaptación estamos en ese camino, llegará un momento donde nuestra despedida no será tan difícil.
I think the process has been difficult for both of us, my heart breaks when I leave and he makes those sad faces, however after he calms down, he spends a nice day with his grandmother or his dad, sometimes he tells me that I have to work so much that my wallet will explode with so much money, (I wish that were true), but as everything is adapting we are on that path, there will come a time when our farewell will not be so difficult.
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Así es, las despedidas no son fáciles, pero es un período de adaptación, lo estás haciendo bien. Un saludo y fuerte abrazo ⛅️ Feliz día.
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It's hard for kids to understand at this moment, but you've done well by always spending quality time with him when you're not in shift.
It's good you put him in care of grandma, that will be much better than external people.
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Hello thank you, if we try to always keep him with one of his grandmothers so the whole process will be easier, and in some way we have more peace of mind that he is with them.
thanks for your support
Esta etapa es difícil, recuerdo que mi hija cuando estaba más chica me toco regresar a mi rutina laboral y era triste, me pegaba mucho me sentía mala madre y que el tiempo pasaba y no disfrutaba de su crecimiento.
Fue una etapa difícil, solo podía hablar y hablar con ella sin importar que no me entendiera, era mi consuelo desahogarme, lo único que me calmaba era que la dejaba con su papá y me quedaba tranquila.
Sacrificios que debemos hacer a veces por su propio bienestar.
¡Saludos amiga!
hola gracias por tus palabras, si al final todo es para que ellos estén bien y con sus necesidades cubiertas
I know what it's like to have to go to work and have your children want you to stay, but unfortunately you have to find money to be able to live, that is, to work.
Hello, yes we must work in order to live, and that's part of what I'm teaching him.